fighting during pregnant

[nebabyy]

OK so my bf has a angerment problem & before I was pregnant we always fight... we fight about the stupidest ****!  We talked about not fighting when I'm pregnant because it's easy to have a miscarriage.. but when were at the point were we can't stand each other & we begin fighting he doesn't care that I'm pregnant it seems, he would choke me,  throw me around &or slap me....everytime we fight I threatin him by saying I'm going to kill this baby. ..but I know that's not good to say. This is my first pregnancy & I really don't wanna loose my baby by stressing so much or him accidently hitting my stomach... he always apologiz. Afterwards.  Were currently mad at each other & I really don't wanna fight with him anymore. What can I do?

[mysteriousbundleofjoy]

Honestly get your man in check it took me almost loosing my son to realize that what was going on wasnt right dude for real!

[Kayy19]

I use to go through the same thing, one time I was at my boyfriend house n were fussing n I told him I was leaving n going home n he started pushing me up the stairs n I told him stop but he didn't so kicked my foot back to hit him n I guess it hit him n his private area n he slapped my face n made my nose bleed n gave me a black eye, I didn't see him until a month he came by to talk n brought me some food in swore he will never do it again, n so far he hasn't put his hands on me again. But I told him he dosent love me or our bby because he put us n danger. But I do honestly believe he will never do it again. But if he do . I'm gone u dnt need to be in no relationship like that.

[Mreeah]

Schitzophrenia is a serious mental disorder. If i were you i wouldnt be around for that stuff because its degenerative. He has to get it under control before he can maintain a healthy relationship.

[nebabyy]

Thanks you all..  and Yes he never take medication. He says that was "his choice if he wanted to" but personly I think he need medication & we need to go to counciling hopefully. It works..   I'll update u all: ) thanks  again

[mysteriousbundleofjoy]

It doesnt matter eigher way!!! Me and my husband used to beat eachother i would hit him n make visible bruzes.. He would bruze my skull and make my head swell.. Also break ribs.. I broke his arm.. I sent him to anger mangement and  we dont abuse eachother anymore!! We just have awesome sex when were upset with eachother!

[mysteriousbundleofjoy]

It doesnt matter eigher way!!! Me and my husband used to beat eachother i would hit him n make visible bruzes.. He would bruze my skull and make my head swell.. Also break ribs.. I broke his arm.. I sent him to anger mangement and  we dont abuse eachother anymore!! We just have awesome sex when were upset with eachother!