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fighting during pregnant

OK so my bf has a angerment problem & before I was pregnant we always fight... we fight about the stupidest ****!  We talked about not fighting when I'm pregnant because it's easy to have a miscarriage.. but when were at the point were we can't stand each other & we begin fighting he doesn't care that I'm pregnant it seems, he would choke me,  throw me around &or slap me....everytime we fight I threatin him by saying I'm going to kill this baby. ..but I know that's not good to say. This is my first pregnancy & I really don't wanna loose my baby by stressing so much or him accidently hitting my stomach... he always apologiz. Afterwards.  Were currently mad at each other & I really don't wanna fight with him anymore. What can I do?
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Put his *** in anger mamagement there is NO "accident" if he beats you when hes angry!! NO EXCUSE FOR A MAN TO LAY A SINGLE HAND ON A WOMAM even if YOU HIT HIM IT DOESNT MATTER!!

Trust me i been through this crap! You dont deserve it evsn if you antignize
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You need to have counciling with him And he needs medication to keep the skitofrinic down and if you don't know what it is it is best to research it and know how to help him fighting is the worst I know a lot about it and arguing and fighting isn't the anwser at all
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Personally its pure stupidity to stay in a relationship where ur getting beat there's no reason ur child is way more important then a man but to each its own. If you like getting beat enough to stay and put up with it enjoy
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I had same sictuation with my first pregnancy and I was super stressed and I had miscarriage.  Buy still things never change. So now I try to avoid stress and fighting bcoz I Dnt Wana lost my 2nd baby
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I know what u mean me and my bf get into fights for the dumbest thing to ever since the beginning of our relationship Now we're going to have three kids together and its worse when we Fight cuz of the kids There seeing us I love my bf to death but it really hard to try to work things out now cuz I think about the kids and how they feel I think you guys should go for counseling And try to work on communicating Cuz that's what me and bf need and we have been together for almost 6 years
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I agree with Erica. I have a restraining order against my child's father.
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