fights with significant other

Question

Does anyone seem to fight with their significant others more often now that they are pregnant. Mine and I fight until I start crying then he holds me as i lay balling in his eyes. I feel stupid crying over this stuff but I do anyways... Anyone else have that problem?

kimisup · Answer

I feel like me and my boyfriend are drifting but im pregnant of course everything wont be perfect lol

beauty12 · Answer

Well since i fell pregnant our fights have been to minimum.. i felt i was more relaxed and calmed.. however since i have entered 31wks i feel very disappointing and angry on him.. and dont even feel like talking to him as its seems to me he is a hypocrite... may be i m tired and bored and just feeling sick.. thts why i started feel that way abt him.. :).. i love him so much but i have felt lately i m not feeling so close to him..

Bri_1985 · Answer

Well said MrsWoodson :)

MrsWoodson · Answer

My husband and I are the opposite. We used to fight a lot because even though we are deeply in love we have clashing personalities. However, we sat down and had a talk over a weekend and discussed my pregnancy mood swings and what we want from each other. We came to an agreement to always talk to each other and apologize for what we do or say. It has worked and we are both working hard on it for the sake of or marriage and our children. We all know pregnancy comes with hormones and as much as most men try to understand, they will never know. Just remind yourself that we MAY be overreacting and try to calm down to talk about the situation. Also, most importantly, remember your baby can hear what is going on and stress is not healthy for anyone. Explain to him how you feel but don't forget to remember his situation and feelings. Hope this helps you ladies. I know it helped me.

Lanny_Licorice · Answer

Yes, It's like we fight all the time now and It's for the stupidest, little reasons. =[ But once we calm down we talk about It like adults and apologize to each other.  What these hormones do to us, lol.

nikki_ahl · Answer

Oh yeah!!! I think our men folk dont understand what growing a child does to us physically and emotionally. My husband gets angry when i dont get things done i promise to do but i explained to him how i feel and he is now more understanding.

nece062013 · Answer

Same here. I hope it gets better because i hate fighting with him.

keisha2012 · Answer

Yes me n my significance other fight even over the stupidity stuff

nece062013 · Answer

My fiancé and i never fought before i got pregnant. Now we argue but its never too bad. We both always apologize afterwards and feel bad.
we were chatting about somethings earlier that was kind of a personal touchy subject and he was getting aggravated and he could see that i was starting to tear up a little bit so he just dropped the subject completely and told me to lay down so he could hold me. That's the first time he's ever done that.
but yes, we argue more now that I'm pregnant.