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Very confused and sad!!

This is my second pregnancy im 22weeks nd this pregnancy has been so hard. I had bleeding morning sickness I ve been getting sick all the time..so I haven't been in the mood for my hubby u k for sex but cuz I bled for 5weeks I was scared. Over a year ago he was cheating on me and I forgave him and now I find in his email his been trying to meet up wit a slit for sex..im devastated knowing this.. I dont know what to do...Why cant man keep it in their pants..oghhhgg
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When I responded last night I said the first thing on my mind. It really depends on if you want to work on the relationship, because it's easy for me to sit here and say you need to leave him. I'm not the one in the relationship so it's hard to say. Sorry if I offended anyone I'm really not a mean person.
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That's Bull Crap If He Even Thinks About Saying You're Not Having Sex With Him so He Found Someone Else ! Me & My Boyfriend Barely Has Sex Anymore & He Understands & Would NEVER Do That ,.We've Been Together For Almost 3 Years & Im 29 Weeks Pregnant , If He's Not Going To Change It's Time For Him To Go !
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@sass508 were here giving her support and your the one going on about communication? You need to leave unless your going to help or at least say something to the poster!
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I feel so bad for you babe! You CAN do this. If you need to talk, I'm here to listen okay xx
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Kays01 you are so right..and I am not blaming myself at all..but u k we have been married for 4yrs..and im just tired of all of this..
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Omg I'd leave... Never let a man push u around! !! You are carrying his child . !! You should be the only woman he wants to be with. I'd say screw u an find u a real man ! You deserve so much better. If a man truly loves u .. He shouldn't even think.about sleeping with another woman. Good luck. Its only.gonna get worse if u stay.
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You guys really need to work on your communication! I'm serious
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Sorry babe, I haven't had sex with my man since I found out I was pregnant (17 weeks now) and he would never do something like that, because real men dont do that! If it's already happend once, chances are he will keep doing it and you already have proof he's trying to do it again. If he loved you he wouldn't do this.
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Don't make him guilt trip you to believe it's your fault for not wanting to have sex. It's your option. Xo
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Ye I thought about tht u know..and right im so stressed out ..I will talk to him ..idk..
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You need too leave him! What a disrespectful, sneaky little S H I T!
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