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10052319 tn?1408978714

frustrated -_-

Hi evrrybody so im a mom of 2 girls a 3 year old and a 2 year old im officially 4 months n im anxious n scared to even find out the gender i feel pressured to having a boy because i feel like im not made to have boys only girls :( dont get me wrong i love my babys but it would be a blessing if i could have a boy he would be the 2 one in the family n it would be great but as of right now im not getting my hopes up :( my question is the babys heart beat is 152 n im going crazy i find out next month the gender but has anybody else been through this or am i only only one who is depressed about somthing so silly :/
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10052319 tn?1408978714
Thanks everybody :)  i find out sept 9 so ill keep my fingers crossed i did try the chinese calender but since the docs kept changing my due date i couldnt get it accurate lol ill try again good luck to u guys n hope u guys get what u want god know what he gives us ;) ♡
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I have two girls to previous relationships and my partner has a boy to a previous relationship his mum had all boys and my mum had two girls and a boy so who knows what we will have, I wanted a boy at the start but now we don't really know which we would prefer, I have a feeling it will be another girl because like you I just feel I'm just meant to have girls. But this will be our first together and we want another one after this one too so I'm not that fussed really
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Why don't you look at the Chinese gender calendar it worked on me and was true too
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I haven't been in your situation cus this Is my first, but I will not lie that when I was told I would be having a girl as my first child I was upset. Happy she was healthy and all that good stuff. But I was upset. I've only wanted boys, not that I won't love her and care for her just the same, its a common thing to be upset about not having the gender what you wanted it to be.
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Sounds similar to my situation. I have two boys ages 2 and 3. I am 4 months pregnant and desperately wanting a little girl. Hopefully we'll both be blessed. Good luck. :)
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My baby is a boy and his heart rate still around the 150's. Hoping it's a boy this time. At my family is kind of a 50/50 sone family members have only girls, sone just boys.  My aunt had 2 girls and her last baby was a boy  :) see don't leave your hopes down. Boy or girl is still going to be a blessing.
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