god, need advice

[taylorschmanek_]

So last weekend i found out my boyfriend-babydad was texting some other girl he said they didnt have sex or anything. I kicked him out of apt. And he was only gone for a day and he said he loved me and wants to be with me and work things out... yesterday out of curiosity i went through hisphone when he was sleeping everything was deleted and there was new texts under a name dannny so i opened them it wasnt a boy. I texted her from his phone saying whose this, like this is his girlfriend stop texting him, im 8 months pregnant and hes about to be a dad. She texted back saying he told her me and him were nolonger together and i was like hes sleeping next to me and.lives with me. I went through the call logs he calls her like all the time before i said something to her but she said she wont even answer him or anything anymore. I dont believe it he doesnt even know i did that. But i love him so ******* much and just want a family and him to be here. Idk of.i should say something or.just tell him to leave cause he needs to figure out what he wants. Im kinda nervous cause when i woke up i texted him and hes not answering... help me ladies.sorry this is long

[brihunt]

Even if that girl does stop texting hhim, there will me someone else, and someone else after that. Some people just don't get the concept of a committed relationship. Or he will use the excuse "we never did anything physically, she was just someone i talked to" but if a guy like that is putting that much effort into "taking" to a girl is he either hookin up with her or trying to weasel his way into her bed.

[taliabilal]

Breaking your*

[taliabilal]

He is cheating and he will end up bemreaking yoir heart. He tells you he loves you n blah blah what if he tell her the same story. These kind of guys are never honest while they are young and bang any girl on their way. They only get serious for one person when they become too old to rock. Than they be like I only love you forever and never cheat you. These guys are only serious when they are too old or nearly dying. Huh!!

[bholcomb]

I would have called her put that phome on speaker and woke his a$$ up. My ex husband did that and that is why we ain't married. You was alot nicer then me. She probably textes him and told him you texted her. Good luck

[steph_shoffner14]

Give him ur options either quit texting her and be with u and the baby as a family, or leave if he can't stop texting her. It ***** but it would lead to other complications in ur Guy's relationship Thats unhealthy. And do what u think is best for u and the baby. I'm sorry to hear about ur bad time with him, but good luck keep me updated

[adri1413]

I would tell him what you saw. I would not be able to keep that in. Also you have to think about your child. Do you want to stay with him and always have that in the back of your head? If you don't talk to him about it then you will always be wondering who he's talking to, where he's at, what he's doing. He needs to get it together and decide what he wants. In my honest opinion maybe if you talk to him and you don't see a change kick him out but for longer than a day so he knows you are serious and are not going to put up with that. I'm telling you from experience. My husband and I separated for a year due to trust issues. I left and went back to my moms. This was about 7 years ago, but I didn't cave in the first time he called crying. It was hard but I had to be strong. Our daughter was 3 then. Now we have two beautiful girls and are expecting another baby. We have since gotten married and life is good. But you have to have that honesty and trust. Good luck mama and congratulations on your bundle of joy!