he cheated

[twinsohlord]

My bf just told me he cheated on me we an by we I mean me just fought I just couldn't stop hitting him he's crying n saying he loves me I told him to leave Cause I don't want to go to jail or have him hit me back cause I went in on him I'm a ex boxer n I hit hard I love him but I'm done cause I asked him too many times to tell me the truth n he still lied o thought he was different but now I see different

[twinsohlord]

Thanks guys

[Marissa2009]

And he told u the truth that's a start he could of never told u. So means he cares a lot for u and wants to make things right

[Marissa2009]

My bd cheated and told me I was crushed but I stayed with him and he has never done it again & he knows I still think bout it once in awhile and he reassures me it was the biggest mistake of his life n hecwas stupid. He realized how much I mean to him n he would never do it again. And that was over 5 years ago. So maybe u should just breathe give him one more chance be cautious but let him get ur trust back slowly and maybe u guys will have a great future!!! It's not always true about once a cheater always a cheater

[twinsohlord]

I'm so hurt I'm just walking around with the f u c k you face in sad and upset n in love this *****

[miracle_mommy2014]

im so sorry for what you are going through. i know that its hard and it hurts....just do what is best for you and your baby. if you want to be with him still do it. make boundries...it will be hard to trust him but if he really loves you he will show and prove to you that he loves you and that you can trust him again. it wont happen over night...but in time it will.
if you dont want to be with him anymore....dont. its hard when someone you love so much can hurt you so bad. just do whats best for you and your baby. things will work out the way the should. im sorry that he did that to you.

[showard022]

That's not true. He came out and told her. My father had a misshap when they were younger and he has been faithfull and treats my mom very well. They have been married 31 years and have 8 children and going on 5 grandchildren. There relationship was never the same but people make mistakes. It would take allot of work but with children in the picture it may be worth it. Just truly think of what you thinks best.

[twinsohlord]

I feel so stupid we went to the lake an talked I asked him how he thinks I feel he said crushed and not important I asked him if I should trust n still love he says no but he wishes I could he looks really sad I'm sad I busted a blood vessels in his eye it looks bad he says hell be good n do anything I live with him an can't just say leave cause he Dont have no where to go I feel like if we can't get pass this we can't survive a marriage ugh so confused cause I want to just say f u x k off n I see you when I go into labor but this is my first pregnancy n I don't want to go to the doctor alone  n do all this by myself I have no problem being a single mom I just don't know if I should go that route

[schneiderkrauss]

Cheaters never change. And if he does it just wont be the same. No matter how hard you try you wont ever be able to fully trust him and you'll start snooping around to see whats he up to. Its so much stress and your pregnant . You dont need that right now. If he really loved you he wouldnt have cheated. Thats not love. And hes not worth it. Just leave him ,:/

[mimifeb19]

I say give yourself time to calm down and think about if your REALLY done because you guys are having a baby. I think your relationship is worth fighting for. Unless hes cheated multiple times then I would be done. But do what your heart tells you. Its not a easy situation. Good luck!

[showard022]

I'm sorry you have to deal with that and I'm sure that you are heartbroken. I think leaving for a few days is good because you are putting you a rend the baby at danger hitting me. I do think he did have the decency to tell you. What do you think made him tell you? He may truly feel heartbroken and guilty over it. Not that he's not to blame there are some seriously nasty girl out there specially in cleveland who would go out of there way to get in between a relationship. Specially if he's young. I'd take a breather and try to hear the whole story. I'm sorry you have to deal with this specially being pregnant and am hoping the best for you.

[ash060115]

Take into consideration he actually had the decency to tell you.
Get the whole true story then decide his fate. Either way you gonna have to be civil for the baby but being civil don't mean you gotta be nice put that boy through the paces and make him feel super guilty !

[caasey_aguiar]

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[twinsohlord]

He's back n we have been talking he knows I don't n won't trust him ever idk but this is crazy im really hurt

[godsgift24]

Just worry about the baby. He's definitely not worth it :/

[amba8495]

Hes not important in your life anymore just do what's best for you and the baby and as hard as this may be I mean control you emotions and stress. Don't let your bf get to you, because if he gets to you it gets to the baby. Im sorry you have to deal with that :/

[Jessika20]

You did the right thing have him leave becauze one you are pregnant an two you cant afford to go to jail while pregnant. Im so sorry this happened to you. I hope everything works out for you and your baby.