Aa
he kicked me outta car
threw my purse out. and now i AM locked outta house. what a nice husband. anyways what are you ladies doing?
i guess i really just do not know what to do. of course i love him. but i am tired of being like this it is horrible. but thank you ladies for everything. i do deserve better. but this is the love of my life i wanna know why he is doing this before i leave
Totally agree w/ tired and many others that agreed w/ tired....this treatment of you is wrong. It can be so hard to believe that there are any good men left out there. But there are!!!
Yes, this is in no way funny. The first thing I thought when I read this post is, "I hope she is packing her stuff!." He kicked you out of a car. I'm sure that is just one of many incidents. Protect yourself and your child. Not ALL men are like this...so don't except this kind of behavior because you think it is 'normal'. Because it isn't.
exactly. I sometimes can't respond to some of the "my husband did this" or "my boyfriend did that" posts because I just want to say 'what are you still doing letting him hurt you like that?!?!?" ....EVERY woman on here deserves better. my husband has done some really rude, disrespectful and borderline abusive things before (he's going to a therapist now)....but i DON'T find them funny and you can bet that if he crossed a line (kicking me, pregnant, out of the car and locking me out of the house would be over the line) he'd be out of my life in a moment. i love him, but i love myself and my babies too.
It's fine to come on here and vent and even laugh about it if things aren't too bad...but it's time to get real sweetie, you really need to take this seriously and consider that the future could..and probably will...get worse. you deserve better. your baby deserves better. end of story in my mind....it may be hard to leave but can you honestly live with yourself if your significant other begins treating your baby in such a rude, abusive way?
it's been mentioned on here before...and it's true...abuse very often gets worse or starts for the first time during pregnancy...and once abusive habits start, without help and intervention (professional) they WON'T get better.
if you decide to keep him in your life...I would strongly strongly advise couples therapy. it can work, but he needs to get real and make an effort to be a real man.
It's fine to come on here and vent and even laugh about it if things aren't too bad...but it's time to get real sweetie, you really need to take this seriously and consider that the future could..and probably will...get worse. you deserve better. your baby deserves better. end of story in my mind....it may be hard to leave but can you honestly live with yourself if your significant other begins treating your baby in such a rude, abusive way?
it's been mentioned on here before...and it's true...abuse very often gets worse or starts for the first time during pregnancy...and once abusive habits start, without help and intervention (professional) they WON'T get better.
if you decide to keep him in your life...I would strongly strongly advise couples therapy. it can work, but he needs to get real and make an effort to be a real man.
I absolutely meant no offense to anyone here.... I'm sorry for sometimes telling you all what you should do in a relationship. I just want you ladies to be happy.
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