Strip club..... am I wrong?

[Stephjhb]

Im 25w ftm, me and my partner hadn't been together long before I got caught pregnant but we have a happy healthy relationship BUT he is off out to a strip club at the weekend with friends and I have taken it quite badly, maybe because I heard how much 'fun'? He had last year or because im obv not feeling myself in
my body right now, either way I don't like it and he has said he won't go but now his friends are going to think im being soft and stopping him having fun, also its a very seedy place compared to the more classier places and he's stupid when he has a drink with the lads,

Am I wrong?? How would you feel?

[lizancar]

I have a couple of friends who are strippers & with the things they tell me I would NEVER be ok with my husband going. But thats just me.. If your not ok with it speak up who cares what his friends say..

[babyonboard24]

Personally my hubs wouldnt go because hes not gonna help pay some strippers bills when we could use that to pay our own..or shop for our boog..or our house...or dogs..or ourselves lol.

[jessicaann21]

Personally I don't mind when my boyfriend goes, which he like never does, cause I know he's to cheap to actually have a good time xD

[Stephjhb]

I would go if I wasn't pregnant and it wouldn't bother me him going usually but this is a secret lads thing and his rowdy friends would egg him on to do more evem though I do trust him 100% its hard not to feel insecure about it when I feel/look like a whale and cannot/choose not to go out in that sort of way because our baby is more important

[MissKellee]

all the time?! ummm thats just wrong!
perhaps going to the strip club with him? i went to one! its kinda fun! lol...he cant touch the the women. its a no no! =]

[shelleversole]

You can only expect everyone to feel differently. I guess this is all about your relationship type, your level of trust, and all that. I personally jabe never been bothered by strip clubs. My husband doesnt care for them, but I've told him he's more than welcome to go if he wants. I know where he sleeps at night, and I know he prefers me. But none of us know your partner, and like all women all men are different. I would just talk with him, and try to reach an understanding so that both of you are happy and comfortable. Good luck and try not to get worked up and upset.