My bf is the same way i told him no smoking around me n he's lied about it I just gave up on him so he's not allowed around me until he brushes his teeth washes his hands changed his shirt n washing his face Lol
When I first got with my .bf I told him I don't smoke and i have a slight allergy to it...he used to smoke almost two packs a day and he quite cold turkey the day we got together. Now that I'm pregnant he won't let me around anyone that smokes and tells his family to put it out around me lol
And that's when he wouldn't be allowed in the car anymore if I was in your circumstance.
I think you should talk to him straight up you have to put your children health first ! No one else
Omg! My mom is the same way! Some people have a real problem and its nothing we can do! J
Just stay your distance thats what i have been doing . Im done stressing over it .. im trying to enjoy the rest of my pregnancy