just a vent

[Abfsmomma]

As the title says this is just a vent.. I'm SO sick of my fiances brother. This GROWN MAN is the rudest guy I've ever met! He constantly insults me and ALWAYS has something negative to say. I just want to scream at him but I know that it wont help the situation and its not good for me or baby. I'm 18, he's 24 years old..everything I say (literally) he calls me names or tells me I'm an idiot. He thinks he knows everything and he thinks he's always right. My fiance is 19 and just enrolled in college so he could get his degree and get a better job for our daughter and I, his brother tells him he's stupid for wanting to go to school and he always tells us how broke WE are. I tell him nicely its not his finances and not his worry but he insists they're his worry because its HIS little brother. He's very close with his uncle and basically up his butt and the other day we had to cancel my doctors appointment because we couldn't make it and he screamed at me in the kitchen about how we NEED to adopt out our baby and his uncle said he'd take care of our daughter. I just shut my mouth and walked away because I didn't feel like fighting after how upset I already was. I cried for hours that day because I was stressed out and was looking forward to hearing my babies heart beat, my fiance was frustrated with me because he didnt understand why it was that big of a deal to me. He understands now and apologized for it but I really just needed him to hold me and let me cry. I honestly think his brother is jealous of his little brother because he has a fiance and daughter on the way and he's 25 and an alcoholic with no girlfriend and no job. He brags that he's single with no worries but deep down you can tell he's jealous. Especially since he's trying to find a girlfriend online and my fiance let it slip to me on accident. Well gee, if his brother showered EVERY DAY, brushed his teeth EVERY DAY, wasn't an alcoholic or a jerk and quit being such a chain smoker I'm sure he'd find a decent girlfriend. But, he's not going to change ever so I doubt a decent girl is gonna give him a shot. Ugh, sorry this is so long. :/ I just needed to get it all out..

[Jaz1989]

GOOD JOB...

[Abfsmomma]

I told him I needed him to say that too! We live with his mom and her boyfriend and both of them are about ready to tell him to get out too. I get along really well with them and his mom stands up for me a lot. I'm not even blood related to her and shes willing to kick out her own son to make sure I'm comfortable. I told my fiance I was going to move home if this continued and since I said that its been okay. Ugh, loser doesn't even define it!!

[parkersmommy]

The truth is your fiance needs to be the one to tell his brother that he can't talk to you like that the man clearly doesn't respect you and if your fiance does he needs to tell his brother that he will respect you in your home or he can't come back. Also dude sounds like a loser.