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My babys father seems to never be happy about our baby. He never wants to talk about it. i mentioned i wanted to name a boy lance. and all he said was he didnt like it but wont put any other suggestions out there. Hes also always upset because his first baby mama wont let him see his daughter. i feel so alone in this pregnacy. like its only my baby. :/ and when i try to tell him some cool stuff like the baby is now growing an inch every week he says nothing. idk what to do but not talk to him about my baby. :'(

Griswold433 · Answer

He's probably really upset about his daughter and other things. My boyfriend didn't show excitement or support at all in the beginning, I'd do the same and Google the size of the baby and cool things that happened every week and he just didn't seem to care. I was really sick and constantly throwing up and he wouldn't show concern or take care of me. I guess acknowledging that we were pregnant was hard for him. It was for me me too but it's different when you're the one going through it emotionally and physically. As we started going to our first appointments and ultrasounds he started showing more interest, they told us the sex and that's what got him all wired and excited. He started shopping on his own and buying clothes and random toys. Take your baby's dad to ultrasound appointments perhaps that will get him excited

simplylizzy23 · Answer

Maybe it is a man thing because I do the same with my husband. He wanted a baby and we tried for 10 months. When I tried telling him how I feel all alone, he said he will take. Care of me and will be excited when the baby Comes.

ashnx · Answer

He wont even buy my vitmins tho?

RiRi167 · Answer

Tbh my baby daddy did the same thing. He has two other  children that his baby moms won't let him see. I was anyways upset & crying. It put way too much stress on me. I got to the point that I had enough & told him I don't want to do this alone bit I refuse to have him around stressing me out. Now he comes to me helping picking out names. He even got me a baby book to put pictures & to write to my baby. Now he holds me & kisses my belly. Sometimes you need to give men an ultimatum. Hope all works out for you.