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any other single (soon to be mums),, I need help :(
Do you just sometimes feel so overwhelmed that you think you cant go any further? Dont get me wrong, I am so happy for the little blessing that is growing inside me, but there are times when it truly feels like I cant control anything and I get hit by such a strong wave of sad emotions that I feel completely lost.
My partner and I split up about 3 weeks ago, and at first he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby, but now he's back with his ex (and another child of his) and suddenly wants contact. Im terrified because I know that both him and her are the sort of people that would ask to see the child for an arvo and id never see my baby again. I have told him that I think its best if he sticks with his first decision and stays away. I can honestly say that after everything, I dont love him anymore and only hope that one day ill be happy again. But right now im so scared of everything and get so sad by everything. I dont know where to turn anymore.
My partner and I split up about 3 weeks ago, and at first he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby, but now he's back with his ex (and another child of his) and suddenly wants contact. Im terrified because I know that both him and her are the sort of people that would ask to see the child for an arvo and id never see my baby again. I have told him that I think its best if he sticks with his first decision and stays away. I can honestly say that after everything, I dont love him anymore and only hope that one day ill be happy again. But right now im so scared of everything and get so sad by everything. I dont know where to turn anymore.
You're going to hurt from your loss. I'm sure it's painful but don't doubt your strength. I'm 32 weeks pregnant and I'm leaving my husband in a few weeks and I know it's going to be hard on me but it's gotta be done.
It sounds like you did right by keeping him away... I know it can get hard and with all of your emotions I don't know if you miss him but don't give in to that ... he doesn't sound like much of a gentleman... if you have a feeling there could be drama stay away from it. .. it's the last thing you need. Do what you need to all in your baby's best interest (: I'm just trying to give you the best advice I can
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