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[bb421]

So im 39 weeks today n I don't get why it is so hard for my bf n roommate to help around the house! Bf helped a little today but then after I cleaned the whole kitchen I started having contractions...nothing regular but they hurt. So after dinner I asked for the kitchen to be cleaned again. .after 2 hours...I gave up n did it myself n now he doesn't get why I'm mad! 39 weeks! Why can't I get some help! Ugh!

[maybaby2013]

Its sooo anoyin wen they dnt help. my bf is also guilty for tht. I ask him sevral times to do stuff then he finaly does it wen i go mad. We both work full time and i come home make th dinner and i expect him to do dishes but he never does. I have tried th whole leave it till it gets messy then my mum comes over and she ends up doin all th dishes bcos she doesnt want me over doin it. Came home today from work and he done them all. So he can be good sometimes lol.

[KTowne]

Join the club dear.. I have 2 kids and a husband I follow around all day. My husband works, and I don't so I have no problem cleaning the house, I don't really expect him to clean at all, but I'm constantly cleaning something, especially with kids. I know it's hard at the end of pregnancy, but it really does help progress things. If you're cleaning and getting contractions, KEEP cleaning, you might put yourself from inactive labor to active labor. I would make a list of chores for your roommate and BF to help with, and make it very clear you want them done. Or a good way to get them to pay attention is by not cleaning at all, let it get terrible (hard to do that, I know) and then they'll see how much YOU do and that they need to help you out.