is this possible?

[rnh3290]

can a 17 almost 18 yr old girl get pregnant from having sex with a 12 almost 13 year old boy?

[rnh3290]

thanks so much for your good advice and kind words. and jenyfer276 thanks we really need all the praryers we can get right now. im most def gonna b talking 2 god myself also and its a real delicate subject cuz of the age differences so im not real sure if parents are a good thing to be bringing in right now but i will consider it cuz it mite get to that point if he doest quit. cuz he has been coming to my house and stalking me also, and i kno im not about to have sex with him just so he can leaev me alone. just the other day i was on my way home and he pushed me up against this wall in the allyway and started grinding on me tryna get me hot. but i was strong enuff to get him away from me and i just kept walking. and telling him loudly to go home. i allowed him to walk with me but i went my own way so he could go his. he almost got caught by his father. and wats so good about all this is his father drives my school van that comes  2 get me in the mornings and drops me off! and my mom knows his fam real well.. and my mom is in on wat hes dooing so i mite have to go ahead and have her make a fone call 2 his dad.......i kno the boy aint gonna tell on her hes 2 afraid of getting his *** beat by his father. his dads is one of them no nonsense men. hes a very good dad, and yet this boy is dooing the things hes dooing cuz hes going thru hormonal changes and hes thinking with the wrong head! ive even suggested that i hook him up with some lil gurls that im cool with so he can leave us alone! u kno wat he replied? "I love YOU tho, i want a woman not a gurl! plus i gotta beg them lil *** gurls! I want you cuz i Love YOU!" i said "baby u dont even kno wat love is! why dont u come back to me 5 yrs from now." but he insisted that he loves me! and i look in his lil face and i feel sooo bad for him....i mean i dont want the boy to get in trouble! hes still kinda innocent u kno, hes dooing this cuz he dioesnt really understand he cant go around screwin every gurl he falls in love with! so does anyone have any suggestions on how i can nip this in the bud by dealing with him hisself instead of invovling adultss?

[rnh3290]

watever man, i kno wat a hefer is. my problem with u is u speak without thinking obviously. like everyone is saying ur personal opinon can b kept to ur damn self. and u need to quit talking to me like im so naive kid cuz i aint im smart even tho i may make bad judgements like every other teen, all cuz ur 22 dont mean ur **** dont stink and u kno everything. and no im not making fun if u for being a pregnant woman or having weight cuz ur pregnant. i said hefer cuz i didnt wanna say *****. which would be the more fitting term. Sweetie u need to check urself b4 u reck urself. u can b done talking to me all u want idc u aint hurting my feelings at all. just kno that if u let one more ignorant word come out ur mouth i cant guarentee that what i have to say wont have u in tears. and just cuz us teens make bad decisions dont mean we were brought up bad. my mom and her parents are exceptional parents to us. and theyve educated us on everything we ask about or need to kno. its US who make our decisions NOT THEM. so dont go making statements about our parents. and all cuz yo lil bros dont have sex ( or they SAY they dont they could b doin **** behind ur back this very mmoment, teens are crafty as hell,i should kno) dont mean their angels either. and u aint GOD so u have NO RIGHT WATSOEVER PASSING JUDGEMENT ON ANYONE DAMMIT so watch ur damn mouth ive tried bein nice, and ive tried my damned hardest not to say anything mean to u but u keep goin and ima let it all fall and i aint gonna have a problem puttin yo unborn child in it at all either. and also for the record stop passing ignorant comments about other kids before yours come out like SATAN HIMSELF WIT 666 on his ***!......now im dont with YOU. and yes for everyones unasked question we can all get along NOW as long as no one tries to judge anyone..........im sry if i offend any one else but i had 2 get that off my chest cuz wat she was dooin wasnt right at all...i promise yall i aint a mean person. u treat me good and im gonna treat u better. u treat me bad and i treat you WORSE simple as that.

[jennyfer976]

I totally feel sorry for your friend, and really hope she turns out not preggo and all works out ok. I know she must feel scared if this boy is bullying her. I think you should encourage her to go to his or her parents and just say he is pushing her around. I am not sure if they would believe her or not because she is older but at this point it is worth a shot. If they do believe her something could be done to remedy the situation and if they don't believe her well at least its out in the open so the parents can stop those 2 from having contact with eachother. If nothing is said the situation is likely to continue and if your friend is not preggo now she may end up pregnant if the behavior continues. As for your concern I think your a good friend for caring and trying to find out some info to help her. The girls on this post were right in saying that your friend could very well get pregnant from the boy even though he is younger that is true. I have to agree with you on some aspect about what kids do these days too because I am sure not all 12 year olds are as innocent as we would like to think, unfortunate but true. Again praying it all works out for you:) Good luck!

[heatherlynn22]

itssnowing is right. go to the police. even though he's only 12-13 years old stalking is against the law and both of you can get restraining orders/pfa's against him. if he breaks them then he gets in trouble.

i do have to apologize for being so callous. it's just i have brothers around his age and just thinking something like that upsets me knowing it could easily be them. plus, i know it's a horrible excuse, but the hormones are raging and i've been major crybaby and uber bi**h the past few weeks.

either way she does need to stop. if not and as we've said he gets mad at her for whatever reason he can get her into a lot of trouble. which i'm sure her only turning 18 does not need. she needs to think about her future and what the repricussions of her actions can lead to.

[Nessy1324]

You'll need to look into the PA statutory rape laws because I am unfamiliar with them and don't want to give you false information.  If he is cornering you girls, I would just try to stay as far away from him as possible.  If you see him coming, go somewhere else.  Do you guys attend the same school?  If so, maybe there's a teacher or guidance counselor who can help you out.  Find out the laws on S.R. first, because you don't want to get your friend in any trouble.

[Itssnowing]

What you can do is bring it up with an authority figure.  Stalking is illegal, and you can probably have some legal backing against you.

This also seems like a very abusive relationship, even though they are not dating anymore.  Try to contact a teacher, or the boy's parents, if not possibly the police.