Aa
kind of depressed
OK I'm 40 weeks pregnant, the father of my child is in and out of my llife ever since my pregnancy started.
Anyways he already had a baby with some other girl but the other girl is a straight up hood rat, she tried fighting me knowing I'm pregnant and is always trying to compete with my child. Like who in their sane mind would go against and backlash an innocent baby who's not even born yet?!
The problem is, everything really. My sperm donor just uses me for money and has not helped me out with a SINGLE penny but I'm just soooo stupid. I know he uses me and yet I still feel pity for him now and then and try to help him out . which afterwards he ignores me for a week and goes with the first bbymom or just goes and hooks up with anything that has a vagina.
He's in a gang, he can't stay loyal to his own shadow, he's always in trouble with the law, he ignores my baby and me for weeks out of each month, he only talks about his first baby and hasn't mentioned my baby at all on Facebook Nd I'm about to have her. I know in my heart I'm going to have a horrible life if I stick with this person and I still torment myself by checking his Facebook and his first bbymoms Facebook, idk why if I get hurt either way.. it just pains me that my daughters getting rejected from her own father for her half sibling. I just don't know what to do, how do I get my mind of him! How?
Anyways he already had a baby with some other girl but the other girl is a straight up hood rat, she tried fighting me knowing I'm pregnant and is always trying to compete with my child. Like who in their sane mind would go against and backlash an innocent baby who's not even born yet?!
The problem is, everything really. My sperm donor just uses me for money and has not helped me out with a SINGLE penny but I'm just soooo stupid. I know he uses me and yet I still feel pity for him now and then and try to help him out . which afterwards he ignores me for a week and goes with the first bbymom or just goes and hooks up with anything that has a vagina.
He's in a gang, he can't stay loyal to his own shadow, he's always in trouble with the law, he ignores my baby and me for weeks out of each month, he only talks about his first baby and hasn't mentioned my baby at all on Facebook Nd I'm about to have her. I know in my heart I'm going to have a horrible life if I stick with this person and I still torment myself by checking his Facebook and his first bbymoms Facebook, idk why if I get hurt either way.. it just pains me that my daughters getting rejected from her own father for her half sibling. I just don't know what to do, how do I get my mind of him! How?
My mom was in the same boat prego with me! She was just focused on me and her and she was over it! Keep your head up! You'll know what to do when she comes(=
If he doesn't wanna be there for you and your baby it's his loss girl!! Just think about your baby ,you won't want to see her hurt if her dad is always in and out of her life she deserves better!
in my opinion if u know he does this to u n treats u that way that should be enough for u too get him off your mind if you replace thinking about him with forget him its all about my baby you will forget all about him
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