Am i wrong?

[MrsSpeth]

I work for a company that takes care of people with special needs, both mental and physical. Well I take my client to a group for people with disabilities that meets once a week. I've had this man (another client.. not my own) that has been a bit obsessive with me since finding out I'm pregnant. He asks many personal questions about the baby and myself. I usually give a quick short answer. I try not to encourage his questions. Because I feel its personal. Well this last week there was a Valentine's day dance and he waves me to the side and starts asking questions again then begins to touch my belly all over. Making me very uncomfortable. Now I can't find his staff any where nor do I know if he is aggressive. So I don't make him stop. Bur kind of move back. Then he places his arm around me and tells me he has a crush on me and he loves me. I kind of freak and tell him I'm married and he says I know but I had to tell you.. my question is would this upset anyone else?  He really scared me. So I went to my boss and told him and he was like.. "And yeah he very obsessive with pregnant women and he is aggressive."And now I'm pissed because his staff is never around to watch him. My boss said he would have a talk with staff.. and that's it.. should I take this higher??

[MrsSpeth]

Ive worked with an aggressive man before (not while pregnant) so I know how to handle him to a degree by talking it out. But him touching me really bothers me. I will have to see him tomorrow if he comes up to me and his staff is not around I will probably take this higher. I will not put my baby or myself in danger any longer.

[uniquemari]

Yes you should take it higher, just to be sure with your safety and baby, if he is aggressive then if you tell him to stop and he flips then what? My mom had to deal with the same thing... except she wasn't pregnant, but the guy got mad at her and hit her with a chair.. she went to hospital and now they have a guy watching him. Dont be afraid, good luck hun. Be safe.

[DelainaN]

Scary! I would just avoid him completely and if he doesn't leave you alone insist your boss does something, you have to protect your little one! Especially since he's aggressive

[meg_ftm_sohappy]

I'd wait and see what his care takers do first. How disrespectful though to jeopardize you and your baby by not telling you! That's crazy! Glad you're both okay though.