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Ok so the other day my baby's father came by to bring me something to eat again. I don't want him because he's been missing in action for months. He logged on to his instagram page on my phone and I noticed he deleted all of our baby's sonogram pictures. And telling ppl he doesn't have a baby on the way. I was so hurt and upset . He's been telling this lie to females so he can a talk to them. When I confronted him about this he said I made him mad and he deleted it all. I made him leave. Since I've been doing though this pregnancy the whole time by myself I want him to sign his rights over. I'm 36 weeks now and a ftm. What should I do?
My son's father left when I found out I'm pregnant bc I wouldn't get an abortion. He is talking to other girls also. He wants nothing to do with his son. He tells people its not his. I called him to let him know how things went in the first sonogram and he asked me if that was all I called to say and hung up. I didn't hear from him again until I found out my baby is a boy. He stuck around for a little, off and on, just bc he found out its a boy, he said. When I thought I was going into labor I tried to get a hold of him and he would not answer at all. I finally told him to get lost bc I have been with a really great guy for the last 5-6 months and he already cares about my son as if he was his own and so does his family. Since then it's been so much easier. I feel like a load of stress has been lifted off of my chest. I am 38 weeks and 3 days today and still haven't heard from him, which I prefer. He has no rights if he doesn't sign the birth certificate. And he can't do that unless he's there, so don't let him know when you go into labor. And if he is anything like my baby's dad, who doesn't want to pay child support, then he won't try to get rights bc then that mean he has to pay.
Yeah dont let him or anyone he knows when u give birth and dont let him sign the birth certificate.
Hes not ready to Settle down? I don't want him period ...just to take care of his responsibilities. He's talking to other girls because I don't want him. I have a guy friend now that's been helping me with everything so far. Even concerned about the development of my child. We're just taking things day by day.
Sorry d u m m phone lol you shoulf give him an ultimatum too or let him be he will see you are mobing on without him...
Well if he did that its mean it sounds luke hes not ready to settle down my bf was like that until I gave him and ultimatum and it seemes like he has changed....
Huh my bf is kinda like that too at first he didnt want to put any pics of the somograms of the baby om facebook he only has three not even pics of me I mean hey im not ugly im just yoing I get mad thay he dont really want pics of us on his facebook becaude according to him hes so use to beimg on his own but its so they can talk to other girls but I keep him om check....
And if he does show all the evidence u have of him not being present ect...im.sorry ur going thru that..stay strong hun...he su.x...ull find a real man someday who will love u and baby the way u both deserve.good luck!!!
I'm so upset. I don't want a relationship with him ... just wanted him to be there for me and he's doing this b.s. me & my baby will not fall victim to his shenanigans.
Don't put his name on the birth certificate, leave the father info blank. Boom! No legal rights.
Don't put him on the birth certificate In the first place...that will make him.have 2 go 2 court 2 even b acknowledged as the father...and if he dosnt care 2 do that he wont have his rights ever..
My babys father would go on instagram and never posted a pic of the sonograms either nd.he wouldnt tell girls he had a kid on the way because they never asked like someone is suppose to say excuse me do u have anyone pregnant at the moment watever honestly do watever makes u happy if u confident about asking him to sign his rights over than do it and if he puts up a fight save any txts or evidence that shows he didnt want to be a father and didnt handle his responsibilities since the beginning so u can take him to court
He has no rights unless you put him on the birth certificate. Stop talking to him, don't tell him ANYTHING about your pregnancy from here on out. Do NOT let him near you or in the room while giving birth. If he wants to be in the baby's life he will have to take you to court on his own dime to prove paternity.
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