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9771234 tn?1405793808

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Any military wife's on here feeling alone because husband is always gone. I just got married to my husband. And he's always in the field. I get mad at him because it feels like I'm in this all by myself. I know its his job.I guess I'm not use to military life yet.
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9771234 tn?1405793808
You guys are right I shouldn't make him more stressed out then he already is. Thank you guys so much I feel so much better.  And I'll try to take it easy on him from now on lol
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9435730 tn?1403754999
I grew up military so doesn't bother me much but when you marry military man you marry the military also. ***** i know but you have to be patient and understanding how it is being a dependent. It's frustrating and you wanna scream at times but always remember that it's you he comes home to so try not to be so hard on him. C:
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9771234 tn?1405793808
Thanka ladies makes me feel a lot better.
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8745353 tn?1409278909
Yeah its wrong to be mad. If he could help im sure he would be at home with you. Thank god he isn't deployed while you're pregnant. If you're stressed trust me he is too. Its not easy being in the military and its not easy having to try to work and keep your home life balanced. He needs support not added stress. Take it from someone who has served and has a husband who served as well. If you need to talk message me.
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It's not his fault he's gone all the time. It's his unit. My husband has been in the field every month since I've been pregnant. He's leaving for NTC 3 weeks are I'm due too
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Yup...im on the same boat...im 18weeks and he is leaving in a week for 70days for training...and im in a new town and dont know anybody...it is hard but im just staying positive for our baby. Im trying not to let my emotions overwhelm me because i know he is feeling the same pain...but ladies we just got to be strong for our husbands and babies..it will be all worth it when we get to see our beautiful babies :)
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8365413 tn?1407251515
Military wife for about three years but my husband is getting out in Nov... thank you Lord.  And yes my husband is field artillery and he is always gone but I love what he does.. its hard being pregnant and him always gone but it will get better
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9771234 tn?1405793808
Is it wrong to be mad? Because he's gone all the time?
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I am. He won't even be with me when I give birth. But at least my mom and his parents will be
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Me too :(
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