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not a question just need some uplifting

My boyfriend had a horrible day but then when he got home everything started getting taken out on me so I went to watch tv and he was snoopy down my facebook feed and found 2 post from 4 years ago comes ask me who the guy is and me totally forgeting about him say idk im 18 and was 14 at the time of the posting that wasnt even me before I could explain he called me a lying ***** told me the only reason he didn't walk out the door is cause his child im carrying .... the post was not me a "friend" of mine hacked my facebook abd started talking to this dude without me knowing cause I didnt have alot of internet access then and was making post about him on my page after I found out about it I changed the password and had to block him cause he wouldn't leave me alone and now my boyfriend wont believe me cause he thinks im lying cause I said I didnt know at first.....
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Sweety tell him to get off his high horse and look at the date it was posted and pregnancy makes you forget stuff. It shouldn't be taking it out on you.
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So since he went on your Facebook snooping around, does that mean you get to do the same?! Because I'm sure he has the same kind of crap of his account. If he wants to cut you off and not let you say your piece, that's his immaturity and jealousy shining through. Don't point out the splinter in your brother's eye when you have a plank in your own.

My husband used to do the same crap because in high school I was popular and he was not (we went to school together) and he knew all the guys I dated and he would bring it up all the time because he was intimidated, insecure, jealous and immature. I finally said "when you're done talking to yourself/ being rude and hurtful, I'll be waiting in the livingroom for your in-depth/ well thought out apology" he would get made but would always ser where and how he went wrong and he hasn't done it for a while now.
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Wow girl I feek you whenever mu bf gets home and he has a long day and stressful day he takes it out on me even when his son makes him spend a lot and he gets mad at me like u tikd you to tell him were short on money and you cant afford it but uhh I jist ignore him and walk away when hes like that because later on hes going to get over it....
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If it's from four years ago why should it even matter to him ? He does not have to be mean and say hurtful things to you . Your pregnant and don't need the stress. Keep you head up . He will get over himself
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The past is the past! That was 4 years ago.. tell him to stop being immature about the situation. If he really loves you, It shouldn't matter what happened 4 years ago.
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