Same here ^ I told my bf if it was a girl I got to choose her name and he agreed to it. I rather choose my baby's name because u never know he might want to name the baby after a "certain person"
The way I see it is we are the ones growing the baby and going through all the physical and emotional changes. I will name my child what I want!! My husband had no choice but to learn to love our lil girls name.
At first I had a gut feeling that by naming our daughter Jailyne it would remind him of that girl & I was right. I had said no on that name when he first told me & after hearing it a couple of times I liked it because it goes with his last name & we agrees on keeping that name. But now allbof a sudden this...
This is exactly why we would never agree on names.. & what got me mad the most was that he said every time he hears the name Jailyne he thinks of his "friend" like wth..
People change names all the time so don't worry about looking stupid because you announced it. But hell no I wouldn't let my bf name our child after an ex's cousin. Or anyone I didn't like. Just simply tell him no it's your child too. You have to agree on a name together because the hospital won't put a name on the baby without your consent.
I would go nuts as well! Why name YOUR baby after his ex's cuz, or after some random chick at all?? Hell no, if you name a baby its supposed to be after a mother grand mother father grandfather or someone close like that. Not no dumb ex!! Name YOUR baby what you want to **** him (naming a baby after an ex's cuz or a random chick!)
I'd say screw him and name your baby what YOU want.
Do you really want her to be named after his "friend"??
I'd name her that anyways.
Mm..yeah I would end up flipping my sh*t on my child's father for all of that. That's crazy