must haves for a newborn?

[Destyni_Boyer]

Im having a hard time with what is actually needed and what is just a money pit. Im not really planning a baby shower because I am new to where I live and my family is in different states. Im trying to make a baby registry but so much stuff looks unnecessary and expensive!! What are must haves and what things will only be used a few times? FTM- 20 weeks with a beautiful baby girl

[Destyni_Boyer]

Thank you guys! Been a bunch of help so far!

[Vnessa7]

A crib, Diapers, Wipes, car seat, onesies, clothes, mittens, bath tub and essentials. I wouldn't get toys yet they're too little that's my opinion. Blankets and receiving blankets. Everything else you can get it when you need it.

[Katie_kate91]

Cribs are much more convenient than playpen.. a playpen is also nowhere near as comfy as a crib, and most cribs can convert to a toddler bed so u can use it for a few years... you can get a number relatively cheap.. a stroller is kinda important if you want to go on a walk or to a mall and not carry baby the whole time.

[AngelesV]

Crib, diapers, wipes, rash cream, bath stuff, MITTENS !, hats, clothes, receiving blankets, gas relief medicine for colics.  Blankets, car seat, you wont need a stroller for a couple weeks or months.

[Bearpaws]

- dont buy those, because you can change the diaper succesfully anywhere, as long as it is safe, rigid place.

[Bearpaws]

Also - if you are on low budget (mentioning this only because you were talking about things being a money pit) - I would recommend e-bay. Honestly, after 3 weeks of hunting, we got Mamas & Papas 2 in 1 pram for newborn and older only for 10£. It's in ridicously good condition, clean, fresh, just a few scratches and bit worn out tires. Also, there are these special "tables" for diaper changing and they are awfully expensive -

[Destyni_Boyer]

Do you guys think a stroller is a must? We don't go very many places that don't have shopping carts. Isa crib a must or is a play pack one more ffunctional?

[bananoor]

cot, bottles, steriliser, clothes, towels, toiletries, baby bath, just a few toys, and good to have are a play gym and bouncer but there not essential

[My2LoveBugs]

Do NOT Go Buying Baby Bouncers & Stuff Until The Baby Needs It. I Would Say Make Sure You Have A Car Seat, Stroller, Bassinet/Crib, Protective Lining In It, Baby Swaddlers, Plenty Of Onesies, A Thermometer, A Nose Bulb, Pacifiers?, Just Basic Stuff. DON'T GO SPENDING Tons Of Money On This & That To Keep Up With The Jones's.