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Should i be mad that my baby father always have to work an cant come with me to the doctor he rufuse to call off do that mean when the baby come is he going to busy it makes me mad it feels like im in this alone
You both are bringing in another life it's good that he's working so much he is being the provider but of course we'd rather have our men coming to all of the appointments and suffering thru pregnancy like we are lol
I understand because I went through the same thing with my man. At first I was really upset but then I realized that he was just trying to do the right thing & provide for our family; especially since I can't work.
In a way you shouldn't be mad (only because he's working) but on the other hand i understand. Ask him to request off ahead of time so that he can make it.
It depends on if he is able to miss those days.I would expect my man to call in on the really important appointments. But I know how it feels for the baby's dad not to be there because mine has only came to a few appointments when he was able to come to all of them since he works a different shift. But I would definitely talk to him about it.
He just started so he feels he dont wanna call off already i talk to him about it he talking bout saving for his child an how he cant wait for the baby to get here but cant *** to one doctor appo an on the days he off i work smh its good he trying to save before the baby gets here but i want him to go threw this with me every step of the way
Express how you feel to him. That he should just take one day off or you schedule around his schedule. .. also he maybe saving for baby. He's being a provider
It depends does he have a job where he can call off. My hubbys job only lets him call in a certain amout of times before they will fire him so he has missed a lot of appointments but we worked it out so that he can have 3 days off when she is born
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