is it wrong

[keisha2012]

I know i shoundint be asking this but sometimes i just wonder but will it be wrong for me to falsely say something bout our child to the bsby father to see if he really cares

[keisha2012]

Im not just was a thought

[chelsgr87]

Just dont do that.  you shouldnt play with peoples feelings like that. I would be beyond angry if someone did something like that.

[keisha2012]

Yeah i noticed that best be stupid of me n childish

[Combs7]

If you'd like to ruin any amount of trust you have in your relationship then go ahead. I personally think it's a horrible idea. If you didn't think he cared then why be with him & have a baby? Would you like if he lied to you about something so important?

[Bri_1985]

I can understand where you're coming from hun, honestly I do. But dont lie to him about the baby to test him. It will create a big mess trust me.

[kayla413]

bri yes I felt horrible between him n my mom im constantly stressing sometimes I cry my self till im like hyperventilating n Keisha yes i always told him "its not fair you get to go with ur friends do whatever while im home pregnant" I've learned to let him do as he pleases n now he gets upset how i dont trip off him but like i said i dont need him for me to b happy about my son

[rosey3216]

This will just start more trouble. It just seems like child's play and will cause more drama. Now is a time to be more mature and be the better person.

[keisha2012]

Yeah i caught myself saying things like that also bout him getting ne pregant n runining my life cause it seem he a free will n im not cause im carrying the child n not him

[Bri_1985]

Venting due to emotional stress is different than lying about the baby to test the Father. I can understand why you did what you did, kayla. You felt alone and frustrated, add in raging hormones and we prego women are capable of venting out anything.

[kayla413]

You know ill be honest with you there was a couple times me & my bf argued real bad he's extremely mean sometimes n he was ignoring me but was still on Facebook I said "I wish I wasn't pregnant why did u do this to me u ruind my life" he got extremely sad I cried for almost two days straight cause I felt horrible for saying that I know it's not my baby's fault I was so hurt cause I felt I was alone in this pregnancy, I haven't said it since cause I dont mean it I love my unborn son I cnt wait for him to come, i realized i dont need my bf to keep me happy with my son all i need is my son although since I've said that my bf has been alot more supportive cause he knew he had been hurting me.

[Bri_1985]

Defintely wrong! You'll be opening a whole 'nother can of worms if you down that route and it will be disgustingly difficult to clean up and you will regret it. If he doesnt care then thats his fault for missing out but I wouldnt dare lie about anything involving the baby just to "test" his intentions. Sorry if I come off as harsh but its defintely something that needs nipped in the arse quick.

[marie8736]

Noo dont do that.. Youll end up jinxing yourself.. But to each is own