no more sex ? help

[ftm_mommy]

so my boyfriend told me today sex isn't worth it no more cause we can't do it like before. It just made me feel really useless.  Recently now that we have had tried having sex , it seems very uncomfortable. I'm 13 weeks 3 days.  
What should I do ? Do any of you ladies have this problem ?

[Tas218]

I'm 17 weeks right now and my boyfriend wants to have sex all the time.  It can get annoying especially because I'm not in the mood a lot because I have a lot of pain in my stomach, sides,  and hips. Sex isn't always the same for me as it is for him and that's what makes me no so much in the mood.  Usually i just do doggie style cause he finishes quicker.  But it can become a chore. And then complains like a little ***** if we go two nights with out having sex. He says he loves the extra weight I've put on due to the baby and I've looked better more than ever but that doesn't make me feel any better not looking as good naked  and feeling insecure.  But in your case it's different.  You're only thirteen weeks idk why he's being stingy about having sex. Don't worry. Guys are all the same.  If you wanna get it in,  prance around him in some cute panties and bra and he'll wanna bang. If he's still being stubborn just kinda jump on him and press him against the bed. He should be good to go. It'll remind him that just because you're pregnant,  doesn't mean you're a glass doll.  Good luck ;)

[christine917]

I sent yu a message!

[tishaxx]

christine917 I'm 14 weeks today you due the 11 th January like me how you finding it

[MissJessGolden]

Like many of these ladies have said, spooning, diggy style and missionary are the most comfortable. Spooning has become my favorite because there is less pressure on my bladder from my boyfriend and the baby.

[pregoRita]

Im 27 weeks and big as a house we still have sex doggie style and spooning or somewhat sideways with one leg on his opposite shoulder so were still face to face but the belly sideways lol just gotta keep switching till u find a comfy position hey I can still ride lol

[MrsPerryman]

My bf got mad at me cuz I said he couldn't b on top nd I was complaining it hurts my stomach he got mad stop all action even wen I suggested let's do another position I'm pregnant 25 weeks and 5 days he just said this y I didn't wanna do it anyways nd turned ova I just turned ova also nd cried I felt useless like I kno he might cheat on me I hope not doe wish he understood more

[ftm_mommy]

Spooning seems to be popular so I'll probably try that one out or even me on top !

[wife_and_mama2014]

Husband and I tried the spooning position and I love it! Never really did it til I got pregnant. But he wants sex allllll the time, so we had to find one that worked haha. I'm 29 weeks.

[ftm_mommy]

Oral will probably be my bff , I know i can get the job done that way for sure haha

[Shannonclare]

Oral sex is the best! That's all I really do with my hubby now I'm 32 weeks and I feel too insecure to have sex so I just do oral and he always returns the favor! I hope this helps :)

[bubbles_baby]

Yea don't over think and the movement puts baby to sleep so get it in. Well when they develop a sleeping cycle right now your little one doesn't have one yet.

[ftm_mommy]

It just might be me overthinking it and worried about the baby lol

[1st_time_mommyscarbro]

Don't be worried about having sex because it won't hurt baby at all. I'll be 37 weeks Monday and still do it multiple times a day and you just have to switch positions until your comfortable. You are still way early on so it shouldn't be bad to have sex...

[bubbles_baby]

Spooning will have u sleep lmbo I loveeeeeeee that position so comfy lol

[ftm_mommy]

I'll try these positions out ! Thank you ladies (:

[CHXSINGNOV]

Spooning is literally the most comfy, I swear by it lol

[CaptainCandice123]

My boyfriend just thinks its weird to have sex while preggers bc of the baby and bc of my belly in the way lol i have no problem not having sex but i feel less attractive when we dont. But trust me, after pregnancy,  your men will be all over you. (After you heal of course) :p

[18andExpectingJulyBaby]

I'm 38+4 and still doing the hump n bump hahaha

[missmossyoak92]

You can also try laying half on the bed and have him stand up with your legs on top of his shoulders or doggie style that's what me and my boyfriend do and it works just fine for us :)

[ftm_mommy]

We have tried different ways, but I feel like a strange feeling in my lower belly when he goes in (sorry tmi) !  But I just can't last as long now :(

[christine917]

I kinda do. I felt like it was Me too. I'm 14 weeks today. & a few days ago he was like ima just stop fckin yu. Its just been coming off too quick & I feel like that's my fault. I dont know ?/:

[bubbles_baby]

Try different positions. The spooning position is usually comfortable for both and of course doggie style. U can still ride him b/c u not too far alone and your balance is still pretty much ok. He may just be being lazy.