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why it's he doing this?

So my boyfriend left me for another girl as some of u might already know. He called be multiple times while I was asleep so I woke up and called back and his new girl answered the phone. It hurt me pretty deep. Any advice how to deal with it please?
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Thank you ladies.
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What would u tell your daughter if it was her going through this. Your struggles will make u stronger girl. So sorry for ur heartache I know it's a numb feeling you cant just not feel. God bless you. Talk to people hang with friends be with family. They are all u got . Stay Strong
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I agree with the lady above he's not worth stressing over. I understand ot hurts I've had it happen to me. My first preg he cheated then took off didn't hear a word from him sense my daughter is going to be 8 now. But its fine I didn't want him in her life if he didn't make her a priority he didn't deserve her I also didn't want him or his family near her so I didn't bother with child support.  Besides I've been with my husband sense she was 1 1/2 and he is all she knows. Anyway my point is don't waste your time on someone like him he will most likely come to regret what he's done grass isn't greener on the other side and he will realize that. Keep your head up and know there are still good men out there but focus on your baby and try to enjoy your preg.
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Agree completely with Gordon!
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Leave him alone. You have no time or energy to waste on a man that can do that to you. You have much bigger fish to fry with a baby coming. If he's the father...take his *** for child support after baby is born. Don't dwell and stress over it and don't speak to him unless it's about the pregnancy.
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