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My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I recently heard from his best friend that he cheated in me a few years ago. I remember the night he was talking about because my boyfriend told me he was realty drunk that night and the next day she made him breakfast.. I confronted him about it and he of course denied it. My heart is telling me no to forgive and move on I mean why would his best friend tell me a lie and he isn't the only who has told me I heard it before but just shook it off. Two years have passed since the day he supposedly did cheat and we haven't had issues with cheating since then. I need advice on what is the smart thing for me to do. Apart of me feels like I should stay and move on since so much has happened since then but the other half is disgusted I mean I Los my virginity to him.
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I'm 20 and 19 weeks pregnant too.
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No one can answer this question other then you. If i was in your situation i would sit him down and openly ask him. Maube talk it out so you can move past it x
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Agree^^¥
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I agree. Just sit down and talk. If he hasn't done it in the two years then maybe he knows it was a mistake. Some men are embarrassed of cheating. Its no excuse but it happens
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Yeah u have to talk to him about it. Tell him how it means a lot to u if he didn't lie about it. that u feel stupid when everyone knows about him cheating but you. Just tell him it will be easier to move past it if he's just honest. If he lies u could lose his trust and that's when relationships go down the drain. Make sure he understands that.
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i would sit n talk to him but u should question his best friend motives why would he tell u wen that's his best friend sounds fishy to me it couldn't be to protect u because it happened 2 years ago n he's just now saying something but y now think about the situation hun
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