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So it's 5 in the morning and my bf has yet to come home.  So I called and he said him and his friends went to party two hours away from the city.  Im so pissed he always comes and goes as he pleases. I barely go places other than family functions and he bar hops or club every weekend. How could he at least not let me know his plans. I'm starting to not trust him even more  I'm 29 weeks pregnant and he always just leaves Me alone in the house. I told him not to come home and he can continue to do what ever he out there doing cuz he ain't thinking about what he has at home. Am I over reacting?  
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You're not over reacting.  My fiance  did that when we first found out I am pregnant and a few weeks ago he went to the club and kissed some other female and called me crying bout it.  When he got home we talked bout it and I ended up punching him in the jaw,  and I can pack a punch lol,  but ever since then he hasn't done much or when he does go out he is with his cousin or his best friend,  and she will beat his *** if he does something out of pocket.  Men do what they know they can get away with.  Explain to him how you feel and make it clear that you do not appreciate it and that there will be consequences.  Usually they just need to be reassured that baby isn't taking all you love and care from them.
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I don't understand how some men can be so sweet and others act single in the streets but if we do the things they do we are the worst ppl in the world.
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Nope not at all.
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