please help, don't judge me...

[mommymidge]

So Me And My boyfriend Were Together But We Took A break Early In Our Relationship. He Went And Slept With Another Chick, I Slept With My Ex. Anyway, I'm Really Scared That This Baby Could Be My Exes And Not His. My Boyfriend And I Are Ready To Settle Down With Each other And Were CompletleY In Love And Ready To Be A Family. I'm Scared That he'll Leave Me If It's Not His. Any Advice On How To Bring This Up With Him?

[terlyn]

He will love your child..not to b judgemental but i took a break with my long term boyfriend also n got pregnany by someone else and now me and my man are back together..the only thing is me n my boyfriend r both pretty dark people and we have 2 with eachother already..but the guy I slept with is hispanic so I knowe families r gonna talk mad ****

[lexiharmonysmom]

If he is a real man and he really loves u I'm sure he will love the child no matter who's it ends up being.

[MamaBear96]

If you really loved each other you wouldn't of been so quick to sleep with other people. When I took a break with my boyfriend I just did things around the house, went out with friends etc. Being with someone else wasn't even on my mind. Anyways you could just sit him down and say around the time we took a break we slept with other people amd now I'm pregnant. Let him know it could be his or your exs. Both of you are at fault so he can't be to pissed. All you can do is wait

[promisx]

well , you guys weren't technically together when it happend . just sit him down , and calmly talk to him about it . I wouldn't do it over text or phone call thou . pray about it too

[melcarin]

Just be honest. Be like ya know that break we had? Well.... and tell him. Its better that he hears the truth than to think that the baby is his and its not.