3 years of trying to get pregnant

[kjc3759]

Hello ladies.  I am a single female who has tried for 3 years to get pregnant, using IVF and every attempt failed.  I finally gave up due to exhausting all of my finances, and decided to adopt.  I had a casual male friend and due my inability to get pregnant, we became lax in our bc use, and to both of our surprise, I got pregnant.  He no longer speaks to me, thinking I tricked him.  I went so far as to let my fertility doctor tell him the odds of my getting pregnant without any medical assistance.  My first few months were so stressed due to this guy urging me to abort my dream.  Thankfully I have a supportive family who stood beside me and now at 28 wks pg, I am so happy!  Everytime I feel my little boy move I count it as a miracle.  I am truly blessed.  Sorry for the long post.

[Jessiebaby21]

Aawwww congrats. That's such a blessing. Good luck and I hope everything goes well. My sons father was like that up until I was 5 months and now our son is 6 yrs old and were expecting baby number 2 on April 14 :) everything happens for a reason. Your just so blessed to finally have a little one after so long and he shouldn't make you feel like you or anyone don't deserve it.

[kjc3759]

I'm due Jan 8.  I'm due Jan 8.  It's sad how men can be like that.  Wishing you the best in your pregnancy.  Thanks for talking with me.  I just needed to get that off my chest.

[acline93]

My baby's father is acting the same. He was madly in love with me until I got pregnant. When's your dd? I'm due May 2nd.

[kjc3759]

Haven't spoke to him since I was 12 weeks along.  I'm planning on asking him to attend birthing classes with me.  If not, I'm hoping once the baby is here he will change his mind about being involved in his son's life.  I mean, seriously, who can resist a beautiful baby!

[acline93]

Aww congratulations! Is the baby's father being more supportive now?