should i be upset. ..

[kirstenthecat]

Me and my boyfriend got married a month ago and he still doesn't want to announce it to anyone.. only our family knows.  I just feel like he doesnt want anyone to know im his wife and it makes me feel bad about myself.  Idk why he doesn't want anyone to know :( if he i scared of being judged he should have thought about that before putting a ring on my finger. ..

[mysteriousbundleofjoy]

Honestly I was engaged once to my high school sweet heart the first 2 years he kept our relationship secret from all his close friends told em I was just a "**** buddy" when we got engaged I was pregnent for 2 month then miscared I ask why I was still being told he was just my "**** busy" to hos friend he said it didn't matter after almost a month of being told that i asked around n I found out it was becuz he was cheating on me with like the towns ******...

so I left him n never looked back found my true love n got married...

That was a horrible blow to me.. hope that that's not your situation.. I hope your man is just being dumb n thinking its not a big deal...

I wish you the best Hun..<:)  if I were you I would just tell people about your relationship and tell your man your doing it after.. it shouldn't be a secret... other then the day of your beautiful baby being born that should be one of the best days of your life and everyone
Should know its sacred and special it  deserves to be known

:) <3 best of wishes hun

[InsaneRoman]

Uh, that would make me SO MAD. Like, are so so ashamed of me??? Of our baby???

I would ask him WHY he doesn't want to tell anyone. It may not be as bad as you think but it's still really offensive. :(

[mommyof42014]

My boyfriend wouldn't mention me on facebook or anything the first year we were together it made me sooo mad. Finally I flipped outttt at first he said he didn't know why it was a big deal but if it made me mad he would change.  Now everyday he writes how much he loves me and cant wait til our wedding day. If your husband sees it really upsets u he should tell everyone! You're his wife he should want everyone to know.  

[householder19]

I would be upset to!  My husband is the opposite tho lol..  that's the first thing he does when he sees people he wasn't seen in a while. He's like this is my wife and we're having a baby boy soon an he always has a big cheesey smile on his face when he says it lol

[elivya]

Id punch my fiance in the face if he ever tryed to hide our engagment or relationship. Id personally take off that ring ! Not saying to break up just saying if his not ready to share, I wouldn't be ready to wear a ring 'cause anyone seeing that ring on your finger, your sharing it right there.

[kirstenthecat]

I talked to him about it a couple days ago and he said i shouldnt worry about who knows were married and thats what matters so. He made feel all bad. But it worries me why is he hiding it.. marriage is not something to be hidden it should be celebrated! And he doesn't understand

[calimommy00]

Yup, I'd be pissed too. What kind of mess is that

[Sherbie93]

I would be upset to! But I'd talk to him about it. Maybe he doesn't see it as as big a deal as you do?

[proudFTMTeTe]

Yes I would b highly upset wat is he hiding it from his friends for