Aa
I just cannot believe it.
I should never have let my guard down. Who gives their gf an ultimatum, "me or the baby" theb breaks up with you anyways? Im just in utter shock. And he is the only person ive trusted in years. The only one I can really talk to. What do you do when your bf becomes your best friend and now you have no one to turn to when he breaks your heart.
exactly how I feel we can't control everything lol men hate when you try to be controlling I kind of think you were spoiled like me we want to control every situation around us and want things to go our way like 100% but you can't life will bring hardships to test you ppl around you which I hate so much but but yu have to be strong and deal with them I wish you the best luck don't stress everything will be fine
ill keep praying, I know life cant be perfect but would it be so bad if it went my way? Lol atleast while im an emotional wreck
yea I've been stressing out everyone around I feel like I'm forcing things to be to perfect so that's. why I relaxed everything will fall in place pray about it and don't worry about it you and him probably will be back together and happy in no time I'm also clingy and very emotional also a big cry baby my bf is also 20 so I know he doesn't understand why I'm acting so emotional now but when they witnesses the birth of a baby they will see also as our bellies grow bigger and we go through all these different changes
thanks ladies, as ive been reading and thinking ive had time to calm down and realize he probably is just scared. ive been a crazy clingy pregnant lady lol and im usually laid back so thats probably been adding to it too
oh I wouldnt go for that first lol he and I still have a lot of talking to do and 7 more months to figure it all out. I absolutely hope he changes his mind and thought about this while he slept. Im sure he didnt really want to leave. Hes not usually an emotional guy and was literally in tears when he left
my boyfriend broke up with me over something I said through to my emotions and I'm kind of pregnant angry lady right now but the next day he explained hisself we all say mean and hurtful things when were mad even when you don't mean them now were back together and he said he wants us to be a happy family the thing is just give him time to think if he loves you I guarantee he would be there for you and the baby but if he leaves you hanging then you should know his intentions the whole time
You have to try and fix the problem first. Hitting him up for child support isnt going to do anything but make things worse. If your family is what you want try and make it work if not do what you have to do.
@poeticgurl ty lol you made me laugh with the child support thing. Im glad everything worked out for you I hope I can be as strong as you
Well if you got a baby by him or one on the way you hit him where it hurts ..... In his dam pockets with child support .... And then you move on ..... It' s too many fish in the sea to be crying over one since you're pregnant you don't that stress anyway so the best thing to do is leave it alone and focus on your baby ... Trust me I was in the same situation, different scenario and I let it go and became stronger for my son 10 year's ago when I was 18 now I'm 29 and happily married and pregnant with my second ..... Hope my advice helps you :)
More than likely he was saying them because he was mad but still thats not an excuse. Hopefully he comes around for the baby's sake. He/she is the only one thats really going to suffer from this.
youre right about that. I wouldnt have tried to force him I just wish that he wouldnt have said those things to me. I am going to give him that ultimatum though so thank you, I know I probably wont like his choice but if he wants to leave hes not worth it.
Sounds like you guys have alot of growing up to do. He shouldnt tell you things like that. My grandma always said "why buy the cow when your getting the milk for free" Meaning why should he commit to you when your basically letting him come and go as he pleases. Give him the ultimatum. Either your going to be with me and YOUR baby and be a family or Im going to do this by myself. You have to be strong and yes my husband and I have been through h e ll and back but we loved eachother enough to work through all of it. It takes compromise and he has to want it to work. If not you cant force him.
I dont even know what to do at this point. I havent been able to sleep im crying so hard that I throw up. This is awful! I just want him to do what he usually does, rub my head and make it all go away :(
right? I want to keep it whether hes around or not. And no not officially but hes over here most of the time. Leaves his clothes here his precious tv and ps3. ughhhhhh
Well Im only 25 and my husband 27 and we have 4 kids and one on the way. He needs to seriously grow up. Giving YOU the MOTHER of HIS child a choice between him or HIS baby?? What are you going to do with the kid?? Give it away or what!! Do you live together??
im trying to, I dont want to stress so much that I hurt baby. Its just so I dont even know.
Oh ha he cant avoid u and cheer up baby can feel mommy is sad :) I kinda get what u mean u feel alone my boyfriend has be come my best friend asweel so that happend il be lost
jealous I know for sure. He even told me that he didnt want to share me w/ baby! He said we'll talk more but he doesnt really have a way around that since I have a lot of his stuff lol im just so upset and confused!
Thats mean on his part try talking to him one more time ??? Maybe his scared, stressed , or over whelmed maybe a little jealouse.... But still dosent make up for the what he did to you he still should have been concirate
And to top it all off, he told me he loved me first. This baby was a complete surprise and when he found out he talked to my tummy and told it how much he loved it. How? How does it change so quickly? I just dont understand. I dont even know how I could let myself think that we would be happy and raise our baby together. Now he/she has to grow up like I did. Always wondering why their daddy hates them
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