Venting! What would you do??

[Irene7]

So I found a letter from my Bfs ex and a pic of them I'm really hurt cuz he's still having them around we been with each other over a year and in kinda like wth? What should I do what would you do? Im just hurt..

[DNP47]

I found something similar when my husband and I had been dating for a while. It was a box full of letters and pictures and lame little presents she gave to him. I was really mad (I was sooo insecure back then) and I made him throw them all away. Now that I think about it, he had that box tucked away, so I doubt he really thought about it much, I made a big deal about it and he had no problem throwing it away.

I wish I would have made less of a big deal about it now, because I actually found a box of my own that I had totally forgotten about. I found a box that had cards that my ex had given me and pictures. I felt like such a hypocrite! I threw them away and didnt say anything to him about it, but its pretty easy to forget about stuff like that.

[kimisup]

I just found out my boyfriend is cheating cheer up it could be nothing

[kimisup]

I just found out my boyfriend is cheating cheer up it could be nothing

[jessicaann21]

I agree with everyone else. I had the same problem a few months ago. I found a letter from his ex and it just hurts to see it even if he didnt realize he had it ( which he didnt) because I know she meant a lot to him. But he's not with her anymore and obviously he wants to be with you. If they were supposed to still be with eachother they would be. Talk to him though. Tell him it hurt you. And I hope the best for you:)

[Irene7]

:}

[roxieb13]

It's ok hun I'm 26 weeks and I go crazy sometimes ! Take a deep breath and things will be ok * hugs* :)

[Irene7]

Yea .. Thanx alot i just isk what to think.

[roxieb13]

I know how it feels my fiance has been divorced over a year and we finally got to cleaning out a cabinet with some old stuff in it and I found pictures and a diary that was hers.. it makes me mad but I know our love is stronger then theirs ever was. I know it hurts to see pictures where he was with someone else but he's with you now and that's all that matters. My fiance hardly ever cleans or cleans stuff out he will wear the same holey underwear till its almost gone that's just most men for you ... Depends on if he didn't know it was there or not... Mine just didn't know half the junk he needed to toss it was never put in the " safe keeping box" so its not like he wanted to keep it... Just keep your head up being pregnant ***** my mind wonders all the time but I just have to remind myself he made a baby with me and not her after they were together 7 years and we have been together for 1.. I treat him well dinner is always ready, I do all the clothes and cleaning his only worry is work! If all else fails ask him why he still had it ...  After finding his ex wifes diary I asked him why he still had it and he didn't even know till I showed it to him And he ended up ripping it to shreads when he got his hands on it ! Lol

[dgrayson6]

The longer you keep the hurt to yourself the more nuts you're going to feel.  I've been married for 9 years and trust me we didn't make it that far by keeping our hurt to ourselves.  Talk it out.  I know it *****...I have been there.

[Irene7]

Ur maby right. I'm just really emotional

[Nini30]

Talk to him he might not even know he still has it.

[Irene7]

I know but I feel like he still wants to be with her... Is it just me? Or would u feel that way to?

[dgrayson6]

Talk to him about it.  Tell him how much it hurts you.