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suicide..
Bf and i were argueing lastnight and he said he was going kill himself lastnight and it was like 4 in the morning that he sent the last msg .. i told him not to and stuff but i really dont think he has listened and his mum msged me saying he left at 3 or something he seemed upset and he hasnt come back :/ im so stressed out what do i do ?!? :(:(:( he doesnt have a phone he uses his mums ..
Is he still in school than? Cause than you can call his school tomorrow and see if he is there?
I cant even think straight im so over whelmed and worried :( my parents wont let me sleep over because im 17, still at school and its a school night im gnna have to leave early.. this suckkkks i just want to know WHERE he is ?? He will be too stubborn to get help i know what hes like :/
But it may help! Otherwise go to his house ! Wait for him if your that worried. But why stay with someone who does this to you. Trust me it isn't worth it ! My first babys dad (she is now 3) was no good to me so and guess what does he.show up for visitions.. nope. I found someone who treats both of us like princesses since she was 6 months old and now were engaged and expecting a baby any day now. So maybe this just proves he won't be there for there baby. I know you must be freaking out and you may feel heart broken but try your hardest to look on the brighter side
I honestly think this is a serious situation regardless if hes trying to get attention or not. I had a death in my family just before christmas. My uncle, he was so loving and full of happiness, I guess you just never really know whats going on on the inside. He hung himself after telling multiple people how he was feeling down about his life. If he is doing this for attention call the police and report it, they will take him to the psych ward at the hospital and will be under a 24 hr watch or something like that...if that doesnt scare him into being more mature then there probably is a problem and he should see a doctor. Either way hes getting "help".
Yeah i have a car .. no idea where to go look ??:/ i hardly know the area, where he could of wondered off to, he wouldnt of had money to go places ..
He wants your sympathy. Me and my first "love" did the same thing, honestly it was quite pathetic thinking about it now. We would argue so bad, but we kept coming back to eachother. We didn't want to let one another go. We would throw the suicide card out there and at first it would stop all the arguing, it was a way of not dealing with our problems. I don't know what you two argued about but I assume it was intense. He said he'd kill himself so he'd get your attention, make you feel bad for the argument or even just to move on to another tragic subject so the argument wasn't on the table anymore. But that's no way to deal with issues in a relationship. It's not healthy and it only creates more problems in the end
He sent the last msg at 4am so i assume thats when he left, its now 2pm.. nothing:/ whyyyy is he doing this to me im soo stressed out :'( already have other things to stress about now this :(
I agree, people who actually kill themselves are people you'd least expect it from because they hide the pain. They don't seem depressed, you never see it coming. He is being selfish at this point, he should be there for you and the baby, and not be putting that kinda stress on his momma. No one is a perfect parent the important part is that you try your hardest and put your child(ren) first. I would just wait for him to give you a call, and if this type of thing happens a lot maybe it'd be best to tie off your ends. You definitely don't want your child around someone so unstable, they need stability. Good luck hun I truly hope for the best.
She's right sum1 who wants to really du it wont say anything. He IS doing this for attention. Nd u feeding on it keeps him at it. Ignore him if he acts like tht. A baby is a blessing nd how dare him say his son/daughter is better without a father. I guess I can agree w him tho if he's not gonna try nd b a responsible role model. I'm so sry girl ur dealing w this. Just remember the next time he does this.... misery loves company. Nd walk away from the situation nd ignore him til he's ready to act like an adult rather than u taking care of 2 babies.
Well if the police or anyone would of found him his mom would of been contracted asap! What time did he leave?
Im going to contact his mum and i really really hope he didnt do it :/ idk where he could be ?? He hasnt been at home since early this morning..
I would say relax cause I have been in a situation when I was 17 where he always told me he was going to kill him self cause guy friends would randomly text me. He never did, he just said it to get me scared and upset. But now I am 22 and im with a guy who would never do that thank goodness! Most people who are suicidal don't really say anything about it to be honest. But if you are really worried call some of his friends or go to his and wait for him or wait to hear something and I'm sure his mom can help soothe you as well!.
I dont have any of his friends numbers or on facebook or whatever.. they dont live near him they live in different suburbs.. his mum seems worried. He said to me i found a pretty place to hang myself. Idk what to do fml he only moved in not long ago i dont know the area good :/
Wow thats intense..first of all calm down an try not worry I know ita easier said then done. Secondly call same of his friends if you hav their contact number. If he does this normally just to seek attention then ignore him. If your really worried call his mum an look for him.
I told him that it was selfish and he said it isnt selfish because my baby is better off without him and i deserve someone better .. what if its too late for him to get help what if he did it :/
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