My sons father was a real piece of work. He left me at first saying that he just needed time to make sure that this is what he wanted before the baby was born we had been together 3 years. After awhile it came out that he'd been cheating on me with anything that walks for the last 6 months. After I confronted he told me that I was going to have an abortion which I refused. After a few weeks it escalated to me in the er and him in jail for assult and battery. Mind you he never did anything like that before.Didn't catch domestic violence be we were no longer living together at the time. I thought I'd never get over him but then I relied it wasn't about me and him anymore. I has a son on the way. And I thought do I really want to bring my son up watching his dad do the things he did and said. Hell no my son deserved so much better than that s perm donor. So before my son was born I filed the custody and visitation paperwork. Moved on home 1 hr away from where I was living and re established my life. 4 years later I met the man I'm now married to he treats my son like one of his own and we are now about to have baby number two together. I regret nothing I look back and thank god things happened the way they did because my x still to this day is useless worthless excuse for a man and father. So glad I'm not suck where he is.
Mind you my x tried multiple times to get me back after I had the baby but all I could do was laugh and hang up the phone.
After being told so many lies, dealing with him coming home whenever he wanted, ignoring me for days at a time, and hearing about him and other females, I'd had ENOUGH! It got to the point where I was letting everything slide but one day I spoke up and we broke up from there. It hurt so bad but I couldn't take it anymore. I was so hurt I couldn't eat for like 2 weeks. It was hard trying to move on after so many years! I realized that it gets easier as the days go by. You have to love yourself enough to know that you don't deserve to be treated any kind of way!
My sons father a sorry excuse of a father he would beat me he never worked he was lazy didn't want to get a job never bought my son not one thing since he been born my sons going to be 3.I couldnt take it so i left him he's still the same he's having another baby with some girl I having talked to him in I don't know how long. He don't brother calling or seeing his son he's worthless now Almost 2 yrs ago I met the nicest man he works he calls my son his son loves my son & my son loves him to. Now I'm pregnant with baby 2 with the man I want to spend my life with and I couldn't be happier.
Thanks ladies for sharing and i really admire your strength and courage. If theyre girls in this situation im sure u have brought inspiration. <3