has anybody worked things out with their partner?

[munch2369]

Even tho he cheated? My bf didnt cheat on me but i found out that he was signing up for sites to have sex with people and emailing ppl off craigslist. He said he wasnt gonna go through with it but i didn care i told him to get out. But my parents said that i need to let him stay and pay rent because they cant help me. Idk if i should stay and we can be room mates or if i should try to work it out with him. Have any of u ever given your partner a second chance and everything got better? I just cant believe he was so desperate. He doesnt understand that im 8 months pregnant and sex isnt appealing right now.

[lovemyboys2]

my bf cheated on me 2 weeks before i had our son. but he had been sleeping on the couch for a few weeks because i was the biggest ***** throughout my whole pregnancy. (so i dont blame him) but i did take him back and i am pregnant with our second child and i couldnt be happier. we actually went to counseling and thingsare working out. if i dont take care of his needs he will get stressed out and go look somewhere else. sometimes you have to give in to him to ensure he stays happy.

[munch2369]

My parents completely understand the situation and have copies of the emails. But they are broke and im,not working im due in a month and a half. They want me to stay living with him but not together until i can get a job. But i want my bf around when the baby i here. But i want us to be together. But i dont want to make a stupid decision and end up with herpes or something.

[munch2369]

I just want us to start over and be happy but i also dont think it can happen if we dont get away from each other for a while..

[HappyMommyBear]

i took my husband back after he explained why he left..we talked for 3 hours about issues and limits about his ex and him going there that frequent coz of their son.. my case was easy coz he looks like he's cheating but after the proof he got and the talk we had, he ended up explaining everything.. yours is too desperate for sex.. i cant believe it.. he doesnt deserve a second chance(my opinion) coz he's acting like a child wanting a lollipop so bad while there's a baby coming and he needs to be supportive.. im sorry hun he's an a.s.s.h.o.l.e for even thinking that.. and try to talk to your parents and explain to them the situation..

[munch2369]

I know i shouldnt trust him, but i want to. I do love him we just both have things we need to work on. I was so shocked that he would do this. I go through his phone and facebook and never find anything. It was just this one time and we have been together for over a year. Plus i wasnt having sex with him and when he tried i just ignored him and played with my phone so i could see how that could make him feel. For the passed month or 2 it wasnt even like we were together anymore we hated each other. I just want us to love eachother again and to be happy and be able to go through each others stuff and it doesnt matter cuz we have nothing to hide but maybe thats not possible...

[ericatoday]

And my ex cheated on me 3 months pregnant I forgave him and married him and it was the worst mistake I could never look at him the same way again were now divorced and I'm happy. But maybe if you're roommates in different rooms it might work until you can get a place on your own. But I wouldn't work it out if he's going to try to sleep with others when you're pregnant and aren't comfy having sex

[lizzybrodsky]

My boyfriend did the same thing and was texting girls and they were sending pics back and forth and having some girl come to his work so we had it rough for a little cuz I didn't trust him at all but he says he's faithful now so in trying to look past it for the sake of our baby cuz he's so happy about having a boy but its hard I won't lie if yu feel he really lives you and wants to be there for yu and the baby I would try and work it out jus keep an eye on him and if he messes up again I would say its over!!

[ericatoday]

Don't let your parents talk you into a terrible decision. Yes if he had sex with one person that he met maybe you could forgive him if that's who you are. I'm not. But he is going out of his way to purposely cheat on you. And if you keep him he'll do it again. But its your choice. But I wouldn't let your parents talk you into being unhappy