tired

[CelesteCeciliaC13]

I am only 14 weeks and feel like i could sleep all day. I work and have a 1 year old. Does or did anyone go through this? With my first i was energized through the day and at night i would crash at 9 and wake up for school the next morning. I was in college at the time.

[CelesteCeciliaC13]

Oh thank you both and that sounds really nice. I may become a stay at home mom in the future because both babies will need alot of attention and daycare is way too much lol atleast while im home i can do school or something productive

[specialmom]

Yep, been there.  I was pregnant when my first was 7 months old.  It's really tiring.  I just pushed through.  I did find that all the little aches and pains I had the first go round weren't as prevalent because I didn't have time to focus on them.  

try not to worry right now as much about 'other' things.  If there are a few dishes in the sink, so be it.  AND, I had no problem asking for help at that time.  If you have a mom, sister, aunt, etc.  -----  tell them how tired you are.  I had family that would come and play with my kiddo for an hour or two in the evening or would throw in a load of laundry for me or do those stacking dishes, etc.  I'm not one to ever ask for anything . . .  like I am fiercely independent.  But I really was exhausted so people came to the rescue.  My sweetheart of a husband even gave me vouchers for housecleaning---  like three of them so that I could have someone when I was fed up come in and clean our house (the yucky stuff like washing floors and cleaning toilets).  THAT was really nice and it was a friend's wife who did it so she didn't charge him very much.  

Hang in there.  And it is a little tiring when you have the two little ones.  But . ..   when they are 4 and 5, you're golden.  LOL  It's a lot easier then.  peace and hugs

[Cindyyee]

i was sleepy all the time, now.. i cant sleep. lol