visiting while in hospital....

[carlson_tori2]

My boyfriend wants his friends for come visit one of them I don't mind but one I don't even know and I'd rather stick to family visiting so I don't have to feel awkward/uncomfortable cause I'm Ganna be tired and we have enough family just comming to visit so why add more Idk if I'm over reacting or what what do u thing should I let them visit or should I stand my ground

[AubsMomma472014]

Honestly,  it's a 2 Day....i chose to have  no visitors.  It's a special time for you, hubby and baby.  You're  still recovering,  figuring things out...friends can wait 2 or 3 days. That's just how I felt. My dad and brother were the only ones I let see my daughter While at the hospital. It's quiet time so you can rest.

[carlson_tori2]

I just told him we will see how I feel cause if I feel up to it and I am doing ok I guess I don't have a huge problem with it but if I'm tired and feel like **** it's Ganna be a no lol so I said pay it by ear

[mee25]

My husband has also told me that his frienda want to come to the hospital. Honestly i appreciate his friends but i told him that i prefers that they come home. I want only close family at the hospital. I dont want the room to be too crowded.

[ChefBlu]

I know what you mean and I would tell him that. Especially since you'll be exhausted maybe having them at the hospital won't be the right time. They can always come over to the house when you're ready.

[carlson_tori2]

Ik it's hard I just want to be able to feel comfortable but again yes it is his baby to but.im Ganna be the one excusted looking like **** and not wanting people around

[Faith_Sarai]

Try to explain that you two will be toured and maybe they can come over to the house after you guys go home

[ChefBlu]

That's a hard one because he is the father and he's going to be just as excited and ready to show off that baby. It is your decision though! My fiance hasn't mentioned his friends visiting yet and honestly some I don't mind (as long as they don't touch him lol) but his best friend I absolutely HATE (due to him not keeping his mouth shut and bashing my baby and pregnancy) so he won't be allowed anywhere near my baby or me.