would it be wrong not telling my dad he has a grandchild????

[jeni18]

ok so my dad is a total butt hoe who was mean and rude to me the whole 8 years i lived with him and my stepmother when i turned 18 i left them and went to live with my bf and a month later i got pregnant and now my baby is due in 7 days should i tell my terrible father that he has a grandchild???? plus keep in mind my baby is half mexican and my dad and stepmama hate Hispanics

[jeni18]

thanks ladies

[littlechefmomy]

Its all up to you my dad was never really there for me after he got with my step mom he had always bashed on me all my life im 16 but im noy gonna tell him im pregnant I belly see him now so the next 6 months shouldn't be so hard either

[Perezchica]

That's completely up to you. If it's gonna cause more drama and make a happy time stressful,  I'd say screw them. My mom is a complete drunk b**ch and she has no clue I'm pregnant.  I have dealt with thw fact that I'll probably never speak to her again and I'm ok with that. My new baby and my other kids don't need her drama in our lives.

[ExcitedMommy21]

I hope everything goes well. In the end he is your father I know he is an butthead but knowing he has a grandkid may change his ways wether your baby is mexican. black blue purple or white that should not effect how he feels towards him

[ExcitedMommy21]

No not really. Its your choice. My dad is a complete ***. As in a deadbeat who was hardly there and just recently came back in my life. He has two granddaugthers who he knew he har but now he has one grandson and another on the way. I told him he was getting another grandson just because but he still wont be in my sons life enless he can change. My dad is racist as well but that shouldnt change the love one person has.

[marieangelie]

I think you should do whats best for you and your family. If you think this is gonna brig you stress and your dad will give you a hard time, I wouldn't tell him. It's really the last thing you need in pregnency. But have in mind he will find out eventually and might get angrier because you didn't tell him. I don't know the relationship you and your dad have, so you are the only one who knows what is best. Good luck!!