Just need to vent a min....

[rivermama]

So ladies, I am about 3 weeks away from giving birth to our son and we have a 14 month old beautiful baby girl at home.  I work full time still and am absolutely miserable at this point.  I am tired with work and baby and preggo.  Now as if I don't have enough to think about and deal with, my DH wants to start being a stupidhead.  Over a year ago I found out that he was texting some chick he met at a batchelor party for my BIN.  It could be considered sexting because the girl was sending nude pics of herself to my husband.  I confronted him and he had not talked to her since. Of course, he cried and apologized and blah, blah, blah....
Well I pay all our bills at work and saw her number on our cell phone bill, after all this time.  I checked our account and they have been texting again.  I am so pissed and hurt.  Here I am preg with child number 2 and working and feeling terrible and I am so upset.  There is really nothing you guys can tell me, I am just hurt and don't know what to do at this point.  I am not going thru this crap again, the wondering and crying.  I have two babies to think of now.  
I go for my 37 week ultrasound tomorrow and get to see how big my DS is.  I am ready for this preg to be over and don't want to deal with this drama.  WHY ARE MEN SUCH STUPID A**HOLES?????

[LosingMyMindInGA]

I sent you a private message.

[mom2ariana]

i agree with the other girls...you deserve way better, your husband is having an affair..whether he is doing it physically or not does not matter. nude pictures definitely counts as cheating. who's to say he's not meeting up with this woman? i think you need to make him leave. none of this is okay. maybe not divorce him, but make him leave and seek marital counseling or something in the meantime. you can always try to repair the marriage. but i dont think he deserves to do so while laying in your bed. oh and continue to check his phone while he's gone.
i'm so sorry you're going through this! prayers!!

[AnxiousGurl]

I don't think blocking the number will do a damn thing.....he will find some other chick to do this with!!!  I definately would not put up with that Bull**** while I was pregnant. It's enough that he hurt you once, does he really deserve to have you after doing the SAME thing over again. If he really loved you and respected you, he wouldn't go out of his way to hurt you again. I would MAKE him pack his bags. You deserve soooo much better! Gillian is right, you CAN do this without him! I know many women out there that do just fine on their own and they are MUCH more happy that way then dealing with that drama! I'm sorry your going through this!! Stay strong and don't put up with anymore crap!! Good luck!!  

[LosingMyMindInGA]

You NEED to confront him and you need to make a point of the fact that you DO and WILL continue to check up on him.  Burn me once shame on me, burn me twice shame on you.  I've been through the SAME crap with my husband on several occasions.  apparently it's some idiotic need for attention that men have hardwired into their puny little brains.  You need to make sure he understands just how lousy it makes you feel.  I finally told my DH that it was becoming obvious to me that this relationship was NOT what he wanted and that perhaps it was time I cut my losses and go.  He has since been on his best behavior but he KNOWS that I check up on him and that he is dangerously close to crossing the point of no return with me.  You should not have to suffer in silence in order to keep the peace, especially while you are pregnant.  Trust me I KNOW.  After my last son was born I found where DH had texted a buddy of his at his old job and told him to tell this girl he HAD been talking to that our son "could have been hers" I was freaking furious.  But in order to keep peace having a new baby i kept my mouth shut, i wish i hadn't becuase i totally blew it months later and was literally fighting wth myself not to phsyically assault him becuase I was so mad.  It's best to get it out in the open now.  He NEEDS to know he's been busted being a jack@ss again.  You also need to find out if there is a way you can block her number through your phone company.  I know with ours I can block text messages but not phone calls.  It's worth a shot.

[gillianl]

i would confront him, tell him the calling and texting stops or he packs his bags.  I think you have enough to worry about with being preggo and your daughter to worry about what your man is doing.  I would deffo kick him out if i found out my man was cheating on me either through phone or physical.  There are plenty of single mothers out there who get on perfectly fine without thr kids dads.  i wish you loads of luck in whatever you choose to do