I dated a man for a short time but he could not make me part of his stepdaughter life, 5 years after his wife died. This was a brief relationship with him but I did care for him. When he told his daughter that after 5 yrs he was wanting to date she told him "Ï am your date". When he had to go out of town for work, she had to go with him. I asked him if I could go, he started back paddling. I saw that I had no place as long as the 19 years old stepdaughter was living with him.
Words was said and he is not speaking to me and may never will again. Words hurt and I feel as if there was no room for me in his life. I told him what I thought and it was pretty salty. He has been told about the strange relationship from others but he is committed to taking care of her.