wow, i don't even know where to begin....
i have "discovered" that my dh is signing up for personal sites...sex sites to be exact. the type of sites where men/women are seeking sexual partners, sexual chatting, etc.
i am currently 6 months pregnant and we have a combined total of 5 children. things have been very, very stressful in not only our relationship, but our lives (loss of employment, a car accident, worrying about providing for our kids etc.) and our sex life has not been the greatest....we have sex on an average 1-2 a week and that has gone down from 1-3 times a day. i do try and make him happy in this area, although the hormones and pregnancy have really slowed down my libido!
anywho, we had a huge argument about 3 months ago and that is the time when i first discovered him signing up for sites...i confronted him on it and he said that he didn't even remember signing up...the night he did he had been in a drunken stupor (which is true) and he said he was really sorry for what he did, etc. etc. etc.
fast forward to this afternoon...i was looking in our history for a cooking site that i had forgotten the address for and in doing so, i found links to sexual personal sites....curiosity got the best of me and i went and checked it out...he has ALL his info. on there including age, birthdate, location, interests, etc. on marital status he put "i will tell you later"
i don't get it...i know our sex life hasn't been the greatest lately, but why would he do this?!? i know it has a lot to do with my hormones, etc., but i DO try....i know sex and intimacy have a lot to do with a healthy marriage, that's why i still try at least a couple of times a week. i don't know, just confused and lost and need some advice. thanks for your input!