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1656155 tn?1313008474

I being the girlfriend i'm learning how before we get married

I am finally having a normal relationship, It has ups and downs and everything with it. I am happy. Truthfully i didnt want to come out with it but i've had a drug adiction and been a prositute for 4 years, i went threw alot. I am going to a.a. meetings and i met Joe there. I've got clean and sober and i'm now a full time girlfriend soon to be one day a full time house wife. We have out arguments and our talks it's totally normal and i love life. I love being normal.
I dont ever want to loose it and I'm blessed or lucky how-ever you look at it for that opportunity
I just need a friend on med help some-one normal like me now...

sarah
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I'm very happy for you! Congratulations on being sober, and on cleaning up your life in general! Remember, though...once an addict, always an addict. You'll have to battle for the rest of your life...so just be aware and don't let it sneak up on you. Even prostitution in some ways is like an addiction because there is a huge appeal to making a lot of money in one night - but you're better than your past. You have a beautiful future ahead and what sounds like a great opportunity. As long as this man continues to treat you well, and you both stay sober, I'd say you have what sounds like the perfect life ahead of you.

Now sit back and enjoy!

-Ashe
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973741 tn?1342342773
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Oh yes Sarah, our pets are our family too.  Taking care of them and nurturing them feels very good.  I think it makes our soul feel satisfied.  

You have a blessed day as well and enjoy every minute of it!
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1656155 tn?1313008474
Thankyou , for support, Yes its is a thrill to live now, we went fishing yestarday first time for us and we are even better today, our cats are going to the vet  to get better and they are part of our lives too... One day we will have children, but for now it's just the cats..

Bless your day
Sarah
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973741 tn?1342342773
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Well, this is awesome!  You've had a rough few years and have turned your life around!  What a brave lady you are.  I wish you much luck and success for a happy future with your boyfriend and to have a normal, happy life.

REcovery is a long road and involves many things, as you know.  One is learning coping mechanisms for handling our emotions.  Stay on top of that as you progress in your relationship and new life and you will have success.  

Blessings and Peace!  Isn't it GREAT to be alive?
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i am really pleased that you have achieve so much ad have realised that there is a whole world out there for you to enjoy,put your past where it belongs,in the past and enjoy your life,new beginnings are here for you.
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