i am afraid if I apply for a child support I will have to put his name as a father of the child and he will have all the rights as a father, for example if i want to live in another country with the child he might not let me and etc.
Listen as someone that comes from a stuck up people like he is. They will never accept you or respect you. His bonds are too strong to his culture. It's better if you leave it alone. Say nothing to his family and live your life with your child. They will not understand and they will never change. I would stay away. What if his crazy and takes your baby to Turkey and you never see your baby again. You don't speak Turkish and you don't know what the rules are. I would say get over it. You will find love. True love. Someone that will accept you for who you are and love you for it. Trust me it's hard to believe there are people out there that still live a life like that but it's true. Don't try to understand it. I was born and raised with those kind of people and I can not understand them. Live your life. Move away. Keep his family away from you. You dont want to end up dead somewhere because you dont know what those people are capable of.
Maybe you can find out the rules in your country/city/state as far as his parental rights. If you can get help get help. Don't just let him run away from responsibility.
hun, im going to be brutally honest with you because I think you need a firm kick in the booty! First off the guy is a dog and is just using you for sex! YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT AND DESERVE BETTER FOR YOU AND BABY. Secondly, if he wanted to marry a turkish girl he should have only slept/date with turkish women! I would not be obeying his commands and hiding the baby from ANYONE! What he is doing to you is simply WRONG! Hun, you need to ring your ***** bell and no longer allow that jerk to stomp and use you anymore. Im not trying to be mean, and I know it hurts however you sooo deserve better!! Time will heal and im hoping eventually you meet someone who will treat you and your baby with the love and respect you deserve! further, having sex and hiding your child will not make him love you. Its not you, Its him!! He is a dog plain and simple. Sorry to be honest but I hate to lie to people or sugar coat the truth when the truth is so crucial at this point. I will pray for you and the baby and I wish you the best of luck. Btw, id tell everyone now. If they want to be apart of the child's life and they are normal people.. dont deny your child grandparents, at least you opened the door and if not its their loss. Also..you will need support for that baby..its never easy raising a baby alone.
hun, im going to be brutally honest with you because I think you need a firm kick in the booty! First off the guy is a dog and is just using you for sex! YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT AND DESERVE BETTER FOR YOU AND BABY. Secondly, if he wanted to marry a turkish girl he should have only slept/date with turkish women! I would not be obeying his commands and hiding the baby from ANYONE! What he is doing to you is simply WRONG! Hun, you need to ring your ***** bell and no longer allow that jerk to stomp and use you anymore. Im not trying to be mean, and I know it hurts however you sooo deserve better!! Time will heal and im hoping eventually you meet someone who will treat you and your baby with the love and respect you deserve! further, having sex and hiding your child will not make him love you. Its not you, Its him!! He is a dog plain and simple. Sorry to be honest but I hate to lie to people or sugar coat the truth when the truth is so crucial at this point. I will pray for you and the baby and I wish you the best of luck. Btw, id tell everyone now. If they want to be apart of the child's life and they are normal people.. dont deny your child grandparents, at least you opened the door and if not its their loss. Also..you will need support for that baby..its never easy raising a baby alone.
I really dont want to come off as rude, and i really do feel for you, but come on hon... its quite obvious hes no good for you.
I dont think you should keep your child a secret for his sake. Do what is best for YOU and most importantly your child, no matter the effects it will have on his life.