Single mom need good wise advice please help!

[DarinaP]

I am 6 month pregnant and still worried and sad. My boyfriend left me when i was 4 weeks pregnant. I know he went through hard times drinking a lot, even tried to sleep with my friend worrying about having a child because he is Muslim and Turkish and it's not acceptable in his culture to have a child without marriage. But he does not want to marry me because I am not Muslim and not turkish, he is worried that his parents will know about the child and that if he finds a women he loves ( he is looking for a Turkish women) she would refuse to be with him because of the child, so he told me to be quite and not tell anything to his parents or anybody about the child. I do want to tell his parents though because I think it's not fair to them, I was thinking to wait till the child will be born and tell them or when is the best time to tell them please give me an advice?  Also I don't what he wants , he does not want to date me but he comes for sex saying that he feels good with me and he is also talking to this Turkish girl, trying to find the right women , I feel very sad I don't know why I wasn't the right women for him. I don't care if he sleeps around, but I do care if he falls in love and marries another women because I think its not fair. I know I have to let him go but its so hard and its so hard to keep a child as a secret.

[DarinaP]

i am afraid if I apply for a child support I will have to put his name as a father of the child and he will have all the rights as a father, for example if i want to live in another country with the child he might not let me and etc.
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[DarinaP]

i am afraid if I apply for a child support I will have to put his name as a father of the child and he will have all the rights as a father, for example if i want to live in another country with the child he might not let me and etc.

[Junemommy23rd]

well you will need him for support and also he has to help with the baby and the stuff the baby uses like pampers,wipes,clothes,formula etc. you should tell his parents they deserve to know. Also you should stop having sex with him. he's a jerk period.