I have been dating a very caring man for several months now. He had been a lot of trouble in the past (many DUI's) and had told me how f'ed up he use to stay with oxycottins, roxys, opanas, perks, you name it. It said he was ready for a serious relationship and ready to put this past life behind him. I also know he has some things wrong with his back. He's had surgery to remove a cyst and has digenerative disc disease, a nerve problem and a few other things. He's been to the ER several times to get perks. One time i came home and he was gone with all pills to trade for something else..what, i dont know exactly. He then agreed for me to hide them and give them to him when needed. A few times I found out he had gotten a Roxy and oxycodones from a friend. He lied about all of it and denies it even though i know for certain he did. This past time I seen a txt he sent to someone asking for a opana. He then denied that and made me to blame for looking through his phone and I'm always looking at him in suspicion and I think hes a piece of crap and that he's strung out when it's only because he needed it for pain. I told him to not come home from work because I was tired of his lies. He's begging to come home and that he cant live without me, but he's broken the same promise to me over and over. I just don't know what to do. Am I over-reacting because I know his past and he really does need these pills, or does he hurt because he's dependant on pills. I told him the last time we broke up if he was really hurting bad to come to me, but not to lie and sneak behind my back. But, he did it again this time. He always has inbox n outbox txts deleted, I think he just slipped this time and forgot, and i seen it. Which makes me wonder how many times he has done this without me finding out. He only admitted it to me this time because i said he couldnt come home until he stoped lying, but then I didnt want him home because he lied to me over n over. i knew a few days before he was acting weird and distant, and i kept asking if all was ok, and that he still remembered his promise and he swore all was fine and we were fine- 2 days later I find the txt wanting opanas. I just dont know what to do!!