thank you and i know i put a little but to much details into that sorry but we actually got into a huge fight lastnight as i wrote that post. but we always make up like we will argue then 2/3 hours later we are fine but its an everyday thing.. i mean we love each other so much that neither of us could leave on another but he purposed to me 2 weeks after we got together because the first time we seen eachother its like he fell in love with me instantlyy.. i mean he reqllly does act like he loves me more than anything not his kids but yano .. i mean i love that he loves me so much but everything that has happened in the past with him talking to other females and everything i DO NOT trust him.. but im trying so hard to.. he asked me to marry him. and now hes like second guessing on it which seems wierd bc just friday he was all happy wanting to marry me now hes juts like idk anymore so it makes me think hes got someone else
Hi there. Congrats on the baby. Babies are so wonderful. I just love em.
They do do a number on relationships though. I'm surprised you have so much energy for sex as I was always tired when I was caring for my little one.
Hon, I just don't know. You don't sound very close emotionally to this guy. He's accusing you of cheating and you are accusing him (in your head) of cheating. What kind of foundation do you have? You both distrust the other and seem to not be able to talk about it .
You need to have a heart to heart with him if you fear he is having sex elsewhere. Can you not just tell him that you are worried that you aren't very close and you'd like to change that? Can you then ask him that you have wondered if he had a condom on because of what you are smelling/tasting?
I really can't think of anything else for you to do but to talk to him in earnest and work on building a more solid foundation in this relationship so that you both care for one another, trust one another and can talk openly about your concerns. good luck