have you guys thought about couples counseling?
yes i have done that?but he says that even if his tried he still wants to have sex?but i only work at home?
with a job and 5 kids i wouldn't want sex every single day either. i'm a sahm with 8 month old twins and i don't even want sex everyday. there are some days when i'm just so tired i don't want to do anything. you're tired and that's to be expected. have you explained to him that you're simply to tired, exhausted or not in the mood? if he continues to pester you about it ask him to seek couples counseling with you. so then maybe he'll be able to understand. OR have him work your job then go home to take care of the house, cooking and 5 kids and see if he's in the mood for sex after wards.