Hi God, im with them. You made a mistake and best to keep it to yourself. It wont help or solve anything if he knows.
If you had unprotected sex, you might consider some STD testings before your intimate with him again.
you be ok.
I did use protection,it was a one time and tust me i did not even enjoy it, i have fallen into depression, but i have to get through this, i want to be happy
Life, as a man would you rather not know, or why you think i should not say. Ive been a good wife to him, sypported him in everything, so has ge , the past two years some how we have lost the spark its been ok then we are distant, i pray for happines i pray for myself to overcome this big lesson. In my life, this has changed me and has made me see everything differently i want to be a better person, i better wife and learn how to forgive abd love myself
Hi God, men dont want to know these things and most likley would never forgive you. Keep in mind there is a double standard as in some ways its more accepted if the man cheats but with the women it is a big no no. That being said, men are always being tempted to cheat, so in their minds cheating does exist. Just keep it to your self and maybe talk to the spiritual leader of your choice about your quilt.
In some ways he is at fault also
One thing about telling him. does he know this man and can he find out from a third party in the future?
The person that it happened with i know from jr high, umm my hubby knows he is my friend but theve never me, i dont really see my friends. That person prmised me he would never say anything because he woukd not want me to be more hurt, he has na gf they are on and off he also felt ignored. So no he wont tell him or anyone , he is a army veteran he gave me a solduers promise. I hope with time i can feel better, i really want to give my marriage another shot i really want both of us to try, abd if one day it ends i dont want it to end because of this if it ends ine day let it end because we both know we tried but it didnt work
In our marriage, there is a constant giving of oneself, constant sacrificing and compromising our individuality. We do this for love of another and also to grow old with the person and share all life till the good Lord calls us home.
This constant giving has moments of wanting our individually back and we are tempted, as with affairs, gambling, drugs and the list goes on.
Sometimes we fall and have deep regret but always remember that we are human and can only try and learn from our weakness. We all do it, all have sinned.
I would put this behind you and focus on your creative side. This obviously has had a great inpact on you and has opened up a new part in your thinking ability.
Take this new awareness and turn it into a positive. Try writing poetry, a book, some song lyrics and possibility turning it into a financial gain.
Maybe invent a product.
There are much bigger events going on than the things we get ourselves into.
I wrote the below called "being a better person"
"Just looking up into space and realizing
there are Stars, Black Hoes and Vastness,
also our Galaxy and even the Universe.
They say when we get to the edge of the
Universe our comprehension stops as the
concept of Infinity bangs heads with Self.
Whats up there dosent have to try. it just is.
We are no different but have been taught
otherwise."