relationship

[chriso1977]

help i have  a problem i don't know if it is a problem or not but i need help, i have a girlfriend with whom we are really having good time in communicating  she say she loves me and i do really love her but i ask if i could offer a gifts she say no that she can take any gifts from me that the gift i have given her is my love,but she say she can off  me gives and i don't get it well because she does not  wans gives from me but she wan to give me gifts does this means i am not able to offer her gifts she wans or its true that my love is enough gift i have given her so please help me and explain this to me for it worries me a lot for she might think am not a man who can not offer gives to her love one

[specialmom]

Well, the problem may step from her being 16 and you being in your 30's.  If her parent's do not approve of the relationship--------- she may not be comfortable accepting gifts from you.  I think the best gift you can give her is to wait until she reaches 18 plus years of age to pursue a relationship with her.  

[helpinghousemates]

maybe she has low self esteem and feels bad receiving gifts, how does she reac when others give her gifts? give her gifts someimes, to say thankyou, tel her you love her daily, and dont give her anything to extravigant. i dont think its about not giving her what she wants, but maybe that she already has what she wants....you